Whats a good cut for

DaveDecker wrote: Since I am not the person (Admin) to whom SumoSamurai has referred, nor have I talked with the other Admins about this, I have no comment on Sumo's statements here, other than to say that the Admins are capable of banning anybody at any time, and that such decisions are only made after thoughtful deliberation.

Amen. The administrators are reasonable, ethically-minded people who care for the benefit of this forum. Thank you for keeping HB a great place. 

Blondee was a known troll.  Blondee being banned had nothing to do with the content of Blondee's messages posted within this thread.

Since I am not the person (Admin) to whom SumoSamurai has referred, nor have I talked with the other Admins about this, I have no comment on Sumo's statements here, other than to say that the Admins are capable of banning anybody at any time, and that such decisions are only made after thoughtful deliberation.

It's probable that what happened went on behind the scenes or was deleted immediately, so we have no way of knowing what really was going on.

goddess_mels wrote: I'm not so sure what Blondee said should have gotten her banned. I've seen it intimated or outright said that coloring one's hair often is based on insecurity and that never got anyone banned. But who am I to say...I'm not a mod...  It probably isn't easy to make these judgement calls at times...

I'd have to agree there, Goddess.  Some people are just easily annoyed, and take things way too seriously! 

Some people are just offended by people who aren't afraid to share thier opinions.

Well even if they are hiding behind their hair, doesn't mean they're actually hiding.

My hair covers my ears my left eye and the sides of my face where the sideburns suppose to grow, which I don't have any. So what? I'm not hiding at all. I just like the style, and it's more unique. And I'm not even done growing my bangs and the hair on the sides of my face. Also because my hair covers parts of my face and eye, people can be looking at me and they think I don't know it. They can't see my eye because it's not giving out any light but I see them. Sometimes I can be looking at people through my hair and they don't know it. But usually I reviel my eye partially.  And it helps so I can peek at whatever such as people's test sheets or go to sleep during class, etc.

WAHAHAHAHA blondee got banned!!!

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 Hi eatgreenjello,

                        I really like pic #1 and #3.Wavy thick hair looks sexy short.In the second pic her hair looks too long and unflattering.I disagree with eKatherine I've never know of a shy women with a short haircut.Way too much attention! Short haired women are sexy,fun.flirty,very self-confident,and much more attractive ( in my opinion)

                     

blondee wrote: I'm not saying that is true for everyone, just an interesting thought though.

Not sure how interesting, but I did think about it. Most of the women I know who seem to be hiding behind their hair have hair that is either short or medium length, colored, permed, and styled to be as large as possible. Most women I know who have hair that is long or very long wear it either behind their backs or pulled in a pony or in an updo, and you can't hide behind it that way.

I think it takes loads more self-confidence to stand up for what you think is right when you're taking flack for it. It's easy to follow the dictates of fashion. All they require is that you spend money, not succeed in the look you're trying for.

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I'm not saying that is true for everyone, just an interesting thought though.

I'm sorry you were so offended by my comments, Dave. If you read the above, I try to never catergorize anyone. It was only supposed to be food for thought.

If you like the second pic and you don't want much of a change, maybe try having your hair textured on top. Have your stylist go in with texturing shears and start thinning out. I have this done to my hair every 4-6 weeks (even though my hair is stick straight except underneath where I battle the curls) to keep things light and so I can have the body and volume I want.

Don't let people go making you feel bad if you decide you want it short either. I happen to love short hair on women. It really makes facial features stand out. I was once told only very confident women wear thier hair super short. I believe that, because it seems like the people I know who don't have great self esteem are always trying to hide behind thier super long hair. I'm not saying that is true for everyone, just an interesting thought though.

I love change too, so I hear ya there! I was super short about a year ago, then wore an A line for several months, then went brunette, and now I'm blonde again and growing it back out. Not too long though. Just above my shoulders. Let me know what you decide on!