How do you tame remy hair?

Hey ladies,   I'm new to the site and I recently bought a lace front wig in remy indian hair.  It's really pretty, but it's too poofy!! What should I use on it to tame it down and keep it down?  I look a hot mess, so I've been wearing it back in a clip with bangs. 

Hi!

mmm. I'm guessing you bought it straight off the box and a wig
cutter didn't cut it for you, right?
Usually human hair wigs always look poufy

Thin it out/ Debulk it {hair replacement terms}. First wash it and
buy really good thinning shears. Put the entire hair up and thin
the mid-ends working your way towards the scalp like a coiling
guide.
After you reach the top coil, repeat steps but his time thin out
the root to mid-ends.
Wash again and finish styling! It should look like hair that
appears to grow from your scalp! Thin it out some more if it still
looks poufy.

Best of luck;
Charlene