Why are you people so homophobic? Does this website allow that? Too bad
if it does. Maybe the man is bisexual. Maybe he isn't. He wrote that he
has a wife but likes dressing in women's fashions. Even if he was
bisexual, so what. Some of the sweetest men I know are friends of mine
who are gay men. I am a hetrosexual woman but I am civilized enough to
respect people who are different than I am.
A few years ago I decided to checkout the neighborhood adult store.I walked around for a minute taking in the vast variety of stuff unfamiliar to me.I grabbed a flick which looked interesting(for scientific purposes my intent was to see some type of fetish to expand my views).I found my way to the back of the store and saw another door.I noticed a bunch of guys going in but not coming out.I entered to have a closer look.I saw nothing but regular straight looking guys doing stuff without women .I did a 360 turn and left that scene.On my way home I couldn't help but wonder who is married or has a girlfriend?Which one of these guys went home with 'extra'?
My point is that I would rather have someone come out with their freaky side.At least you know what you've got.From that moment a monogamous guy in heels just doesn't seem that bad to me.Sure it's not a regular cup of tea but it could be a hell of a lot worse
"Aren't you accepting enough to let your man wear heels etc?"
HELL NO! no desrespect, like I said I respect their right to do whatever it is that turns them on. But if my man showed up in heels and stockings, I hope they are comfortable enough for him to run fast! because he is gonna have to, if he wants to avoid the beat down that I will provide for him with a bat LOL!
I like my man to look like a man. If I wanted to date someone in heels and stockings I'll be dating a lesbian.
The only one wearing heels and stockings is going to be me. I mean one thing is if he does it one day to make me laugh (you know as a joke). My ex used to do stuff like that all the time. He'll be in the bathroom getting ready for us to go out an would come out with my skirt on, just because he knew he would bring me to tears from laughing. I mean, the guy was 6"4", it was the goofiest thing ever. But he would quickly go change into his pants after the joke was over. But when he was being serious, the only one he would be putting heels and stockings on was me!
When he was trying to turn me on, he knew all it took was for him to shower, shave, put on some boxers, a little cologne and that's all it took. A nice, clean smelling, clean shaven man, in a nice pair of clean boxers. There is no bigger turn on. No heels or stockings necesary please!
You know just because the a guy crossdresses doesn't mean he's gay.As a matter in fact most crossdressers are middle aged heterosexual married men. If he(or anyone) is gay it's no big deal.His wife isn't worried.How can I seek equality as a minority while condoning the persecution of others?
Edited by Jasadin - September 03 2006 at 6:33pm
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I personally would find that a big turn off, and would have a major freakout if my boyfriend or husband did that. However, that is for me personally. If your wife likes it and turns her on, then that is what matters. After all, she is the one you want to turn on right.
And no that does not mean you guys are homo (maybe a little weird lol). But that doesn't give anyone the right to insult you or judge you.
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