STILL need help (have pics)

My stylist overprocessed my foil highlights, and instead of Gisele Bundchen's golden light and medium blonde hair, I got skunk chunky stripes. She usually gets it right, but she is not consistent. People often asks me "did you lighten your hair?" or "did you darken your hair?". I just want it to be the same always...grrrrr! I need to start doing it myself. She uses Redken EQ color which makes my hair very shiny. Can someone look at my pics please and help me acchieve a color somewhere in between the colors you see on my hair. Someone mentioned I should tone it. But I don't even know how to do that. I like contrast, but this time it is too chunky. The bleached highlights need to be toned down. Please Help!!!

From what I know, she has natural chestnut brown hair, with highlights--which I am sure are toned. 

Try using one of the born blonde toners on just the highlights.  

http://www.clairolpro.com/dispensary/swatches/bb_swatches.ht ml

Try the winsome wheat.  They are very temporary so it's fun to try them and see what shade you want prior to getting a demi. 

Good luck!

Rebekah