QuoteReplyTopic: What made you decide to grow out your hair? Posted: February 03 2003 at 8:54pm
Okay, I've read some interesting growing-out stories on the boards so far. So, let's have some reasons why people decided to grow their hair longer.
Here's mine: Until well into my teen years, I all but abandoned my childhood protestations against the short back and sides haircut my parents always took me for. But my face was changing and short hair was growing even worse for my face shape in my opinion. At 20, I started cutting my own hair and gradually got used to it being longer than I originally intended it to be. Now I want my hair to be practically uniformly no shorter than chin-length and certainly do not expect to have any desire for "change", except maybe to grow my hair even longer, and then more out of practicality than out of aesthetics.
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Long hair on men may not be as much in style as in the past but don't let that stop you from growing your hair out. And I KNOW that many women like longer hair on guys. I know I do.
Do you have a wife or girlfriend? Is she encouraging you to grow your hair longer?
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No, no one's encouraging and I'm single. I like my hair longer but some people don't, my parents, for instance. What I'm interested in is how much people care about their long hair and how much they see it as just a look of the moment or something to have while they're younger only.
My hair is only shoulder-length now, but I've had it to my waist at times. I'm letting it grow (for the moment) because honestly, I think it suits my face shape better.
There are other matters of practicality as well:
1.) While it takes longer to dry, it's also easier to pull back into a ponytail. There's nothing more annoying than haphazard strands too short for the ponytail flopping in your face while jetskiing.
2.) The long length gives my infant cousin something to yank on and play with.
3.) Long hair keeps my shoulders warm in my over-air-conditioned office!
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I am growing my hair out again simply because it is one of my best assets and downright too beautiful to not be long. I have thick, chocolate brown hair with slight natural wave. When it is short, it has way too much body and does not do justice to the short cut, or my face. It is best bra strap length, where the weight takes some of the body out of it. vI cut it short last year becasue I caved in to society. I saw all of the women my age with short hair and felt so out of the loop, almost out of style. Then I realized that style is more about the whole package, not just your hair. Anyway - I am rambling. I also wanted to tell you that my brother in law, who is 33 has had waist long hair for as long as I have known him. He lives in Daytona and is a motorcycle afficionado....so it is a lifestyle for him. His hair is thivk and healthy and I think it is beautiful. I really think it is about the whole package and how you present the whole you.
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Because I had a dream where I was involved in saving people from a disaster. At the end of the dream, I moved out of my body, turned around to face myself and - expecting to see my normal short-haired, tom-boyish self - instead saw a silent woman with long hair staring back at me.
It was a true dream, not a fantasy...and yes...I am probably out-of-my-tree crazy. But there it is. Enough to compel me to re-examine choices and choose to manifest the vision by transfiguring myself.
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here you go: I'm growing my hair long because I like the feeling of it caressing my back and also because of the compliments people give me about it. (I always had long hair in the past so I can compare)
I'm keeping my long hair because I know Gord would love it! Some how I bet you didn't enjoy that as much as when Diane did it?
You only know me half as well as Diane does. She would tell you that I love it when a woman keeps her hair long and am crushed when she reaches a certain age and succumbs to the pressure of others to hack her hair off into a style that is more acceptable to "that" age. Seriously, God bless you women who keep your hair long, God bless Canada and its women and, of course, God bless America!
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I had hair I could sit on until I was 11 years old. My grandmother had long hair she wore in a bun for as long as I could remember. My mother saw Dorothy Hamill skate in the Olympics, and for some strange reason got it into her head that I needed a haircut, and that the Wedge would be perfect.
I'll never forget going to the hairdressers. I cried, my gran cried, and the poor hairdresser was so flustered! My mom kept saying Yes, give her the Wedge, so chop,chop, off it came. My gran kept my ponytail in the bottom drawer of her jewelry box.
For the next 10 years, I had hair of varying lengths, and one day about 15 years ago, I got tired of it and said NO more cutting.
Now I've got tailbone length hair, and am shooting for classic (sitting on length to me) sometime this year. So to really answer your question - being sick and tired of short hair is what made me decide to grow out my hair
1bCiii between tailbone and classic (43.5inches)
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A bit off topic Diane, am I correct that you once had an afro-perm? How long ago was this? (Duke)
No I never had an afro-perm. I have had a few spiral perms but my hair is much to heavy and long to have another one. My hair is a bit wavy. It tends to be more curly when it was above my shoulders.
Hello my dear friend Gord:
How many years, emails, postings etc. I will not cut my hair and yes I hope it grows much longer plus it's better than a scarf when its cold outside. It has been part of discussions among friends etc.
I'm keeping my long hair because I know Gord would love it! Some how I bet you didn't enjoy that as much as when Diane did it? (halffromcanada)
Okay now flip your hair backwards, blink your eyes and say it in the sexest french accent you can achieve and maybe just maybe you will have the same effects. lol
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