QuoteReplyTopic: girls and guy 'friends' Posted: March 18 2007 at 3:51am
yo whas good....how do y'all feel about girls havin guy friends?? a
lady friend of mine tried to introduce me to one of her male friends
and naturally i wasn't feelin' it so now we ain't talkin' cuz she mad
how i came. i dont make it a habit to know competition, was i wrong?
'preciate any opinions or advice.
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In a situation like that you gotta make sure that your game is strong. I'm not saying you gotta be a playa, but if the girl is your girl another dude coming around shouldn't affect you none. If y'all just friends, you don't have the position to get mad in that situation.
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hmm, somethin to think about...then i guess i really didn't handle it
that well, and since it's to tha point that either of us are Not willin to
compromise it's had. but like how could somethin that was goin so well
get so bad so quick...
I feel you.. cuz well my ex.. now just friends.. i dont like wen she got other dudes around her.. or be talkin to dem..idk jealousy.. but it just dont feel rite.. cuz sometimes u always finna have feelings 4 dat person
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I wanna know if this is your girl that you're talking about. Because me personally, if one of my girlfriends has other guy friends. you gotta make sure you put yourself in the position to let those guys know that ain't nothing gone happen with them and her.
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Never be friends with your ex because you'll fill jealous when they start talking to other men or your new girl might start gettin jealous herself and then you got a problem yo.
Never be friends with your ex because you'll fill jealous when they start talking to other men or your new girl might start gettin jealous herself and then you got a problem yo.
the sh*t is dat she talk like she wana get bak 2getha. and how she love me and wut not.. but im not finna ask her bak out. cuz we went out twice.. the 2nd time she basically dissed me... or was just tryna keep it on da low dat we went out.. but the point is.. i sumtimes get jealous becuz sometimes she give me the impression dat we still go out.. but i cant say nutin cuz we "friends"
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BIG I used to feel the way you feel until I stepped my game up. When I first broke up with my ex, I was like damn now some other dude is hitting' that. But now that I've branched out, it's like whatever. I call her every now and then and joke around with her. She talks about other guys but I be like whatever. The best thing to do is let them know that you're not stuck on them, or else they'll forever have a hold on you. FOREVER!!!
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nah, not my girl man..but i def been mackin hard indirectly tryna get
it poppin', so you could i say i focused most of my time and energy
into dis one chick. i suppose i caught feelins which seems like wat i
may have set myself up for since it realli ain't my thing to work on
more than one. then again, i never necessarily went for tha first thing
i saw.
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When it comes to relationships I try to just keep an open mind about being in a relationship with women. I just go with the flow and let the relationship manifest itself.
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gud lukin out dayvo.. but ya thats why wen i be around her i be like wuteva.. but sumtimes it be eatin at me...but wen i act like i dont care..she say i treat her bad and wut not...
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Listen man it helps to another girl it will eat at you when you single and you hear the girl you used to bang talking about other men. If you move on it wouldn't bother you at all. But if you really have feelings for her then get back wit her.
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