Why me!!! NO!!!!

Ya'll know I have been so excited because I was opening my own business and this is my dream. It is not like I woke up one day and said I wanted to do this. I stumbled upon BHM in late 2005, and researched lace wigs for a long time, lurked, and read until my eyes were blood shot. I joined in 2006, and started wearing them in 2007. I have always had a passion for hair, how to take care of it, how it grows,the latest trends, etc... I have had this feeling tugging at my heart for a long time, and I prayed about it and it wouldn't let me go so I decided to go for what I wanted. I have a passion for it and I love how wearing lace wigs makes me feel so I know they make others feel great as well. So today I finally got my stocks, and Lord have mercy the hairline is not like the picture I sent. They are hairline disfunctionally challenged. I don't know what happened. The ones before were perfect, and these looked like they stepped out of a Count Dracula cartoon . I'm talking about some widows peaks out of this world.  I literally balled. I cried like a baby. I can't believe this. Why when you think things are going to be great they just turn into a big pile of Do-Do. I can't and won't sell these wigs looking like this. I have a reputation to uphold. I will not sell anything to someone that I wouldn't wear myself. That is just not right. So I am trying to contact my vendor because I need them all remade and pronto, and I'm not talking about 1 or 2 wigs. To make things worse, they were beautiful other than that.

Edited by Breh - March 28 2008 at 9:06pm

Breh calm down, tears will only make them look worst.  Take all the steps to resolve this situation. Contact the vendor and you too work it out.  This could be the work of a new employee and  he/she doesn't know how important this is to you. Keep Calm it will work out.   Praying helps too. 

Hey Breh,

Breh gal, Listen dont cry! Take it as a blessing in disguise! Gods timing is perfect. Theres a time to cry and time to rejoice, time to sow and time to reap......bottom line be thankful without season....will pm you

MsLiberty wrote: Hey Breh,   You know God has a plan for us all. Like you said it might be his way of telling you to Slow Down!! But it could be his way of helping you get all the kinks out now so there will be no frustration later once your business is up and running. I will put a prayer in for you tonight, but I know that everything is going to be fine.   Trust in HIS timing!!

Breh  Just as passionate  as you are on this day .. I want you too be More Passionate on YOUR DAY.  I see it as this was not the day, But Wait Because Your day is coming..Everything  will  line up, everything  will  fall in to place, all for BREH now that's BREH's day.

Edited by Asia35 - March 28 2008 at 9:37pm

Just wanted to say, I UNDERSTAND. But don't worry, I've seen you around  & you've been putting in a lot of work. Sometimes these set backs are God's way of putting the brakes on for you to catch your breath. 

Awww I'm sorry talk to the vendor and GOD will help work it all out. I feel your pain I'm trying to get mine of the ground too.

Thanks ladies. I am in the process of working it out with my vendor. I will keep you all updated. Thank you all for you kind words and encouragement. I guess I just wanted everything to be perfect, but I know that God answer prayers and I just left it in his hands.

Aww Breh it will be alright. You sound lik me- I'm a senior Chemistry/Pre-Med major, mother, and scientific researcher- and wife (I almost forgot that) on the go 24/7. Don't worry, just slow down, breathe and let God put it all together. When you think it's all out of control that when you experience your miracle and see just how things work out when you leave it alone. I bet when your units come back they will be the baddest around (in a good way of course). Take care Miss B (for busy)!