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    Posted: April 02 2008 at 8:34am

Ladies,

 
Recently I had a intimate encounter and he grabbed my head! Don't laugh, but I freaked out!
 
When I touch my head I can tell something is on it and I just freaked because I wonder what was going through his head!Wink
 
Why do men gotta grab the hair when the feelin gets good!LOLLOLLOL
 
I don't like people to touch my hair at all. Have you ever encountered this and how did you feel!
 
I honestly at that point and time wished I did not have on a LF, so he could feel my real scalp.
 
I think this is my only downfall for wearing a LF!
 
Come on ladies share your moments too!Wink
 
 
 
 
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Actually i don't think they notice are care that much at the particular moment they are more worried about feeling something else other than your scalp...LOL trust me its not that deep for them..
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I had to laugh for a moment, No I do not think that they are thinking about feeling the SCALP. I have to admit that I have worried about the lf coming off, or sliding back. but that has not happened yet.
I have problems with sliding when I perspire, so I just keep the room cool.
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Well i think your experience depends on if the guy is "YOUR" guy,             or "A" guy if you know what I meanWink. 
If its "your" guy just tell him what  I tell my boyfriend "This is look sexy hair, not get ruff hair. If you get to ruff and it comes off, I will NO longer look sexy, cause I can go from Beyonce, to Celie from color purple in no time"
If its "A" guy, i would tell him exactly what you told us "I don't like it when anybody touches my hair" I dont think thats a terrible request.
Either way he should just be happy that hes getting some!!Tongue
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LOLLOL Yall are funny....I don't think he noticed either, but once he touch my head, I was like D*mn! And yes this is my Guy! But still!LOL
 
And he thinks this is my hair!  I'll share if he asksWink
 
My Rule is to never do my hair in front of him! Or in front of anyone for that matter!
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OMG! I'm a junior member now! Wow!
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Originally posted by LovelyLisa LovelyLisa wrote:

LOLLOL Yall are funny....I don't think he noticed either, but once he touch my head, I was like D*mn! And yes this is my Guy! But still!LOL
 
And he thinks this is my hair!  I'll share if he asksWink
 
My Rule is to never do my hair in front of him! Or in front of anyone for that matter!
 
LL you gonna have to come out of the closet eventually.LOL Hair is such a funny thing though. Me and my sweety have been together for about a year. Now when we first started dating i was wearing a full weave with just the front of my own hair out.He would pull on it with no problem cause that baby was sewn in TIGHT!!  I always assumed that he knew it wasnt my hair. When i made the transition to LW about 6 months into the relationship, do you know this man had a nerve to tell me how fast my hair was growing latley. I looked at him like he was the VILLAGE IDIOT.Ermm(men can be soo naive)  But i dint say nothin. It wasnt until I had an Embarrassedembarrasing moment with him that i let the cat out of the bag about my LW.
Now he even helps me with my apps if I'm having a slippage issue or something. I've even gone to get my own hair done once, in a Dominican blowout, just so he can see "the real me". But I will say that I will NEVER let him see me with these jailhouse cornrows in my hair. Thats just too much.
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Men don't care about the details as long as you keep yourself up.
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I have to disagree about men not caring! I dated this guy who hated weave, wigs or anything that was not yours!
 
And men do look ladies! They do wanna know if it is yours!
 
Most don't care like you said as long as you look good.  But some men won't even rap to you if they know you wear weaves, wigs, and etc.
 
But point blank if he ain't feelin me for me, he can step! No love loss here! Cause LF's and whatever is here to stay!barmy
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maybe black men care more i don't know i've not had that problem, and i do not limit myself to one race of men, so every man is different.. i've not had these problems..

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Well, That is why I wear parts it fools EVERYONE and you can run your hands through my hair and feel nothing. No lumps and bumps and humps....so when he likes to grab my head or even pull it a bit, I am good to go! Now get yo freak on!
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LOL! I just love any thread that includes the term "freak on!" Had to come in and say good for you --- you're getting some!!!! LOL.LOL
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Guuuurrrrrrlllll... I had an encounter where he grabbed a handful of my hair and pulled so hard I almost go whiplash. BUT, my Davlyn+SuperTape was up for the abuse. I had a small lift near my left temple that I didn't notice until I got up the next morning and looked in the mirror.

Needless to say, I wasn't concerned "during", but it would have been interesting to explain. He actually thinks this is my hair Wink (mission accomplished).
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I just started to use Davlyn and ST and I love the hold I get but I do not know about hair pulling in the bedroom. We will have to experiment and see. Maybe I need to try sewing the perimeter on for added protection.

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girl pls. my man thinks this entire hair obsession is hilarious,. but if i like it he loves it. u will be fine
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Yall are a trip up in here!LOLLOL
 
But I am confused about the part! I have a natural looking part, but I bet if I grabbed your head, I would definitely know something was on it! I wrap my hair and it is flat! No humps, bumps or lumps!LOLLOLLOL
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And yes a sista is gettin sum lovin!Wink
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I wrap my hair, too... That's a must for "close encounters". Get this, I've had woman "accidentally rub my hair to check if I have tracks. Wacko How nutty is that?!
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Originally posted by LovelyLisa LovelyLisa wrote:

I have to disagree about men not caring! I dated this guy who hated weave, wigs or anything that was not yours!
 
And men do look ladies! They do wanna know if it is yours!
 
Most don't care like you said as long as you look good.  But some men won't even rap to you if they know you wear weaves, wigs, and etc.
 
But point blank if he ain't feelin me for me, he can step! No love loss here! Cause LF's and whatever is here to stay!barmy
 
 
I have also dated guys that hate weave and wigs and I stuck with them for a while but it was a pain keeping up with my own hair all the time and not being able to switch up to different styles. But those guys are not the norm. Most guys are used to it and I'm sure he wouldn't notice your wig because he is probably used to feeling tracks.
 
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