Too short?

I'm a long hair lover, but I think there's no such thing as too short. She should do what she wants.

You admire a very close cropped do. You are not the average guy, most drool over waist length hair. Among male and female friends, some trans, homosexual and straight, the common consensus is that a very short haircut is part of the lesbian uniform. Lesbian women defend it as "THEIRS"!! I trim my wife's long hair, 20 plus years. She gets comments that she needs to get a short haircut, because women over 40 must, the hair facists demand compliance. My preference is for her hair long. We agreed up front. I will  have no other girlfriends, we are in a monogamous relationship, she knows what I like, and what I don't. She won't get her hair chopped off short behind my back, and I will never cheat on her.  But that really is a matter of trust between us. If you love the buzzed cut, you already know that  it is very unforgiving of a less than perfect figure. It draws attention to a large butt and stomach.  If your lady is in the less than 1% population that has the perfect figure, they will ignore the downside of the cut, otherwise they will make very nasty comments, versus remaining silent or neutral. When my wife and I visited Nantucket, Mass a couple years ago, a lady complained at a restaurant, that she was being constantly harassed by an onslaught of lesbians, that were too forward expecting certain behaviors from her. One told her that she was wearing "THEIR" haircut, so it was considered an "invitation" in that town. Her husband was no fan of her buzz cut, and he reveled in her displeasure as vindication of his position. I don't know if they are still married (probably not), but there was an obviously open hostility. You choose a path less traveled, and it is a wilderness. Expect wild animals. The decision is between you and your wife and what your faith guides, if you follow any. If it makes you happy... That is your choice. In any case, I encourage you to learn to be her "go to guy" for haircuts. Their are many videos on You Tube and included in home barbering kits. No need to pay someone else to do it, unless you don't trust your skills and would rather watch.

From a guy to a guy who loves long hair?  Do you like it?  Does she like it? Those are the things that should be asked?

We all want that as guys.  Any thing so we can see long hair. But you have think of her!  What does she want?  She's a woman and she can have the style she wants!  We have to think how she thinks!