My Wife's Friend

Oh by the way, my wife has made comments when we are out together about other women's hair. We were at the mall one night and a woman had hair past her knees. It was light brown and very shiny. My wife grabbed my arm and whispered., " I bet you would love to get your hands on her hair to play with." Another time we were at a restaurant and a woman with well past her knees hair was a couple tables over. She whispered to me to check out this woman's hair. She also tells me when Crystal Gail is on TV and when Jane Seymour was scheduled to TV, because she joked I was, "In love with her". I have always told my wife I do not need fantasies, when I have the real thing. While sometimes my wife doesn't like her hair stoked, most times she enjoys it as a nice prelude to a more physical activity that leaves her exhausted the next AM.

But the vicious circle states, if you compliment them for their minds, they'll do something to their heads.

If they can't take a compliment, it's their problem. Don't worry about it when that happens Rap'.


It's a nice story to hear, especially the elbow in the ribs. It makes it sound all that more real. I thought for a while that your wife would suspect you of cheating because you were able to get to play with someone else's hair

Yesterday my wife's friend Sarah from college stopped by in the morning. She was visiting her sister who lives near by and she called my wife to chat. My wife had mentioned she needed her ends trimmed and that she had a dental appointment later in the morning. At around 9:30 Sarah knocked on the door while I was home doing a couple chores. I offered her a cup of coffee while she was taking off her coat. Well when I took her coat I noticed that her red hair now reached slightly past her waist, it was about shoulder length the last time I saw her a few years ago. I commented on how much longer it had grown and she mentioned she wanted to talk to my wife about it. I mentioned she had just left for the dentist a few minutes ago. She mentioned she had hoped to catch her before she left for the salon. I questioned what salon and Sarah mentioned she had spoken of a trim. Well I had trimmed my wife's hair the evening before, just about 1/2". I mentioned my wife's dental appointment was all she mentioned. Sarah said that she had hoped to see my wife's stylist. I mentioned I was my wife's stylist, I had trimmed her hair for years and she kinda of looked at me funny. She sat down at the counter, to drink her coffee, while she talked about her trip, her job and her new apartment. She then looked at me and asked my opinion if I thought she needed a haircut. She said a couple female coworkers have been telling her it is time to cut it as she is near 40. I asked her turn so I could see the full length better. I told her it looked great, she had a few split ends but I wouldn't go chop it all off. She asked me how short did I think she should cut it. I told her the absolute most she should take off would be three to four inches to get the split ends and even up the uneven pieces. She paused a minute, held her hair up and looked at her ends. Would you trim it for me she asked? I said OK, put my coffee down and went to get my scissors and stuff. She sat there looking at her ends and when I came back, she said, "I cannot believe I asked you to cut my hair." I told her if she doesn't want me to, that was OK, and I turned and walked back to go put the scissors and stuff away. She stopped me and said please I want you to. So I told her stand up so I could reach her ends. I combed her hair, sectioned it and pinned up the upper sections. I trimmed about four inches total. I tried to carry on a conversation with her as I cut, but she was very quiet. Afterwards she went into the bathroom to check her hair, while I vacuumed up the trimmings. A couple minutes later she came out and thanked me for the trim. She said she had been going through some tough personal times and had planned to ask my wife to take her to her salon and be there to support her while she got her hair cut short. She thought that it might somehow help, after all the encouragement to do so by her coworkers. She admitted to having second thoughts. She said the fact my wife had already left for her dental appointment and our conversation were signs that she should not cut her hair short. I told her I was glad I was there to help her not make a decision she would regret later. I told her her hair looks absolutely fabulous and she definately should NOT cut it short ever. She replied that it didn't before I cut it and she sees why I have been trimming my wife's hair all this time. My wife came home about a half hour later and they chatted all afternoon. My wife came downstairs later and elbowed me in the ribs. She said Sarah told her that "her stylist" did a very nice job trimming her hair. I asked if she was a bit jealous, she said no, but don't be so smug. I told her you hate short hair, so you were not necessarily being really nice, you just hate seeing any woman cut their hair short. I agreed, I hugged my wife and I told her that Sarah looks good with her long red hair but she wasn't anywheres near as pretty as hers. My point: I am not predjudiced, woman just prettier with their hair long. I'm sure that there are quite a few short hair fans that will argue with me, but it is my opinion, and there are a lot of women (and men) that agree with me that admire a woman's beatiful long hair.