Seeking that special long hair loving man.

WOW JADE! This is quite an ad. My guess is that you will be inundated with respondents. I will throw in my two cents anyway and maybe I'll be one of the lucky ones :)))I am a 43 years old, romantic, non smoking, physician living in California. I have never been married and have no children but I would very much like to be a parent. I am healthy and financially secure enough to work only as much as I like. As you might imagine from the fact that I frequent this site, I loved ur last sentence about unrushed shampoos, scalp massages, and curling your hair. I think it is very romantic when a woman has her hair curled or braided for a man, and even more romantic when he helps her in this endeavor. In respect for privacy between the both of us please contact me via email if you are interested. My address is GuyLksHair@aol.com> Where to begin. I suppose I will start by telling a> little bit about myself. I am a 20 something single> female with no children, although someday I would like> to have at least one. I do work and fully support> myself. I do not smoke. I live in the United States. I> am healthy and practice yoga and I love to swim and> dance. One of my fantasies is to wash my hair sometime> in a beautiful waterfall and wear a red exotic> Hawaiian flower in it afterwards just like an island> lady would. Let's see. I have a medium to slim build> that's more on the slender side. I have very long and> shiny all natural strawberry blonde hair that ends at> mid thigh. I have big green eyes and I like to smile> softly a lot...I am a bit shy. I am Irish, French,> English, and Swedish. I like gentle, quiet, but> passionate moments in life. I love picnicking by a> babbling brook with dragonflies and orchards nearby if> possible. One of my hobbies is cooking and I have been> told I am an excellent cook. I can make just about> anything and I love learning and experimenting with> new recipies. I am a romantic at heart. I love poetry> and play the flute and Irish Penny Whistle. I have an> herb and flower garden at my home and one of my> favorite things to do is add the herbs from my garden> into my cooking for a great flavor. I also enjoy> sewing many of my own dresses and blouses very much> after I design them. I have also woven my own straw> hat which was a proud accomplishment for me. I make my> own candles and potpourri from the flowers I grow in> my garden. I am very loyal and believe in a close> commitment with a one and only special man. Now if> only I can find him. I like to take things slowly at> first not only for the sake of safety but my shyness> doesn't always allow me to open up to strangers right> away. What I value in a relationship is honesty and> warmth...respect for each other. Tenderness. I may be> young, but I feel in many ways a bit old fashioned at> heart. I am seeking an honorable, attractive man who> isn't pushy whom I have things in common with. I would> like him to have joy and tender compassion in his> heart. If he writes poetry, it is a plus. If he likes> to give very very gentle scalp massages, long unrushed> shampoos, and create magic curls in a lady's hair> (mine) that is superb. That is the kind of man I dream> about.

You sound interesting Eric. I can't give out my e-mail address to people I don't know well because I don't want strangers to know my last name. I would prefer initially to correspond with you on this Personals Board, OK? I hope you had a marvelous summer and I'm glad my ad caught your eye. You have already put a sparkle in mine. Do you write poetry? Do you like to cook or do you just appriciate fine foods and treats? What are your favorite foods? We already have something strongly in common and that's of course love of the romanticism in hair.What shampoos and styles are your favorites? Do you like ringlets? I do.Ciao,Jade

Hi Jade,You are a marvelous lady, it looks like. Every man's dream, loving, romantic, homely, artistic and patient (your long message indicates that).. and to top it all a beautiful very long hair lady who loves having such hair and understands the beauty such hair beholds. For a long hair loving male like many of us on this board.. you will be a gift from the heaven. Looks like you are searching for that special man in your real life. Well I don't qualify for that, though I am a long hair lover myself.. and possess a many of the things you have mentioned.Your wants sound very genuine.. so wishing you that find that "man of dream" you deserve, soon.A good freind and well wisher.

>Dear Jade;Do you see what I mean. Look at what is missing in the reply letters to you. You opened up a letter with a great deal of personal openings but it wasn't directed to any particular person. But an answer isn't an open letter . Itv is personally to you. This is a very different dynamic. This isn't the kind of expression that one wants to share with the world because it is a private expression to you. all of your answers have everything missing. A woman wants to get a letter like a man would talk to her if he was expressing himself with all of his heart and passion. Everyone has to put their share of effort out to make a relationship really happen. It can't be a one way street. If it is then the guy becomes a woose and you would get bored real quick. I know that i am always willing to take the extra step but not when it isn't an appropriate one. If you take a stand for whats right and you back off because you are afraid that you might lose something then you don't believe in anything and you won't take that stand again when something else is on the line. My friends know that their back is safe if I am guarding it. From my point of view if a woman wasn't interested enough to get another mail box so she could really communicate with me then she wouldn't really be interested in me and I would be better off finding a love that was mutual. Sometimes when a young person thinks they are grown up they are making the judgement from the view of a young person. Before you tell me blah, blah, blah. Give my words some serious thought. Every moment is an opportunity for realization and you never know what might trigger a new way of thinking. People do become grown up just like that. It comes from listening first to others and then to yourselfBarry

> Hi Jade,> You are a marvelous lady, it looks like.-Thank you! Sweet thing to say.Every man's> dream,-I don't know about that, but thank you! :) Another very sweet thing of you to say.loving, romantic, homely, artistic and patient-"homely" LOL. I think I know what you meant though. :)> (your long message indicates that).. and to top it all> a beautiful very long hair lady who loves having such> hair and understands the beauty such hair beholds.-I am so glad there's gentlemen like you who appriciate long hair on girls. I have no plans to cut it. I am glad that you find long hair to be special and I would like to thank you for saying such nice things to me which I loved.For> a long hair loving male like many of us on this> board.. you will be a gift from the heaven.-WOW!Looks like> you are searching for that special man in your real> life. Well I don't qualify for that, though I am a> long hair lover myself.. and possess a many of the> things you have mentioned.> Your wants sound very genuine.. so wishing you that> find that "man of dream" you deserve, soon.> A good freind and well wisher.-Thank you very much for your beautiful words, Raj. I certainly wish you all the very best. You sound quite nice and wonderful.Kisses to you, and harmony...Jade

> -Thanks for the respect. I'm glad YOU understand.> I don't> -No, I haven't seen it yet. I just saw its trailers on> television. It certainly sounds charming, the way you> describe it! Did the women in the film fix their hair> in special ways? Braids? Did they put anything special> in their hair? I like hair accents. You have made me> want to see that movie all the more. Did they have> ways of curling their hair back then? If so, how did> they go about doing it? Did they use plain water to> set their hair with and create rag curls by any> chance? What color and length of hair is your> favorite? Do you prefer hair that has a naturally> straight texture to it or do you like hair that has> totally natural curls, slight frizz, wave, or any> particular thickness to it? How do you like the ends> to be maintained or do you like untrimmed hair? I do> love storybook romances too. Does setting gel bother> you? If not, what are your favorite brands of hair> products? Do you know of any natural things to add to> hair to achieve the desired results? I heard that> ladies used to use Henna for color. By the way...what> are your favorite books and other movies that you are> fond of?In the movie they did show some curls but most of the girls had braids. Given the choice I would always choose curls over braids. In the movie they did not show how the curls were created. I love hair accents too, like bobby pins with hearts on them. The girls in the movie had no hair accents. I am not partial to hair of a particular color..I do love it long.. I like both straight and curly hair but in either case I love how the hair looks after its been set in defined curls. I am not picky as to trimmed or untrimmed but my guess is that hear looks healthier if the split ends are trimmed off. Setting gel does not bother me. In fact I prefer hair that is set wet on rollers rather than hair that is hot rollered. When you set your hair wet, how do you dry it and how long does it take? How long is your hair? I like romantic comedies and romance movies in general.> Although I am a> -That sounds interesting.> I love to cook but its> -I know exactly what you mean. It is fun to cook for> someone else who can appriciate it too.> -Me too. I also eat a lot of fruits like strawberries,> bananas, apples, tangerines, and Bing cherries.Yes I am big on fruits..my favorites are cherries and blueberries.> I enjoy being out in nature, especially> -Me too. I like the results of toned calf muscles that> such activities give as bonus perks.> I also enjoy all types> -Oh I love all kinds of music too and I do love jazz!> I have written a few pieces of music myself just for> fun. The title of my last song was callled "Dove> O'er The Moors".> In terms of> -Oh how delightful. They are divine, aren't they?> The styles I prefer depend on> Mmmmm....babies breath. Yes. What other flowers do you> like?Roses to be sure. Babies breath have caught my fancy for a womans hair because they add to her femininity because they are so "dainty."> I give a really good> -I work. I have a job I love that has something to do> with antiques. Do you like antiques?Antiques are wonderful! How long have you been doing that?> How do you like to wear> -Ahh, I would have to say I wear my hair in a generous> amount of curls. People say they make a lady like me> look sweet and sexy all at the same time.Yes curls are very feminine and sexy. I would be in heaven if you curled your hair for me. I think that is a verrrrrrry romantic thing for a woman to do for a man!!!!!!!!!!> What do you like to wear> -Long flowing dresses preferably with a Moroccan, East> Indian, or exotic floral print on it...or country or> Victorian rose print...dresses can also be gingham or> fine silks...crushed velvet...I have some that have a> laced bodice. I also have some that have tiny bells> hanging from then that give a soft chime like> windchimes when I walk that I like. I like open-toed> shoes in the summer.I love dresses and skirts on a woman, especially when we are going out or trying to create a romantic mood. What you describe sounds perfect...casual but feminine.> How do you create the ringlets?> -Rollers.Jade, This is unbelievable. A woman who sets her hair in rollers is indeed a very feminine lady. I love the look the rollers give to a womans hair. How often do you set your hair in rollers?> -Thank you for writing Eric! What does your hair look> like??? I love to admire a fine head of hair on a kind> and tender, but strong, romantic man. I think that> long, lush, thick hair on a man is just> wonderful...his most valuable physical asset besides> good health. Head hair can make a man look powerful,> yet sensitive and is the epitome' of what makes him> physically attractive, in my opinion. I don't care for> hair on a man's body or face, but I am mesmerized by> running my fingers lovingly through a man's crowning> glory. I could stare, fondle, and muse over a man's> head of hair all day and all night long, I love it so,> especially if it's shiny and touches his shoulders. It> is fun to play with...to enjoy...smell...press my face> against...my fetish indeed.I am going to be completely honest with you on this last point. Like many men my age, I am balding. There is an area on the top of my head about the size of your palm that has very little hair. My hair is BABY SOFT, black, and slightly wavey. I used to have very long hair..long enough for a ponytail to my mid back but I cut it about ten years ago. However I still wear it longish..long enough to create a small ponytail, and the back of my head has plenty of hair to run your fingers through because it is cut bluntly (rather than shaved in the way a traditional mens haircut might be). I love when a woman plays with it and runs her fingers through it. I also have a beard but I keep it short and it is soft.> -Whew! I think I better take a cold shower now.> I hope to hear from you again soon. Thank you again> for leaving me a very enjoyable message.Thank you for answering every single one of my questions in a methodical manner. I hope I was able to do the same. Please let me know if you would like to continue this exchange of information. I really hope that you do!!!!ERIC :)))

Jade.... You are most welcome. Have a good day.. and drop a line when you find that "dream man". Raj> -Thank you! Sweet thing to say.> Every man's> -I don't know about that, but thank you! :) Another> very sweet thing of you to say.> loving, romantic, homely, artistic and patient> -"homely" LOL. I think I know what you meant> though. :)> -I am so glad there's gentlemen like you who> appriciate long hair on girls. I have no plans to cut> it. I am glad that you find long hair to be special> and I would like to thank you for saying such nice> things to me which I loved.> For> -WOW!> Looks like> -Thank you very much for your beautiful words, Raj. I> certainly wish you all the very best. You sound quite> nice and wonderful.> Kisses to you, and harmony...> Jade

> In the movie they did show some curls but most of the> girls had braids. Given the choice I would always> choose curls over braids. In the movie they did not> show how the curls were created.-Sounds like a wonderful movie. Again, you are making me want to see it. It sounds very special.I love hair accents> too, like bobby pins with hearts on them.-Ohhh, me tooooooo. Do you like faux sunflower barrettes? I still have mine in all sizes which I got when sunflowers were all the rage in fashion a few years ago. I think they fool bees and hummingbirds because I always see them flying up close to me when I wear them. My favorite barrettes that I have are some antique ones that look like small white doves. I like the fine craftsmenship and many of the materials that were used of long ago.The girls in> the movie had no hair accents. I am not partial to> hair of a particular color..-:( Frown of disappointment. I was hoping to get together with a man who has a preference for blonde hair, since I am a blonde. Oh well.I do love it long.. I like> both straight and curly hair but in either case I love> how the hair looks after its been set in defined> curls. I am not picky as to trimmed or untrimmed but> my guess is that hear looks healthier if the split> ends are trimmed off. Setting gel does not bother me.-What brand(s) of hair care products are your personal favorite(s)?> In fact I prefer hair that is set wet on rollers> rather than hair that is hot rollered. When you set> your hair wet, how do you dry it and how long does it> take?-A long time. Sometimes I wear a home bonnet dryer to speed the process up or sit outside in the warm, summer air.How long is your hair?-Quite lengthy. I have to put it over my shoulder to the front of me, unless I want to sit on it.I like romantic comedies> and romance movies in general.> Yes I am big on fruits..my favorites are cherries and> blueberries.-Do you like blueberry muffins hot from an oven made with fresh blueberries?> Roses to be sure. Babies breath have caught my fancy> for a womans hair because they add to her femininity> because they are so "dainty."-I agree.> Antiques are wonderful! How long have you been doing> that?-A couple of years now. I love my job...I never get tired of being around antiques.> Yes curls are very feminine and sexy. I would be in> heaven if you curled your hair for me. I think that is> a verrrrrrry romantic thing for a woman to do for a> man!!!!!!!!!!-I like to set my hair for people who appriciate my efforts that I do to try to please them. It is a joy to share my love of curls with someone else and I do love the feel of kind hands fondling them in admiration. Maybe others don't see it this way, but I see a certain special deep intimacy in preparing curls especially for men whom I date.> I love dresses and skirts on a woman, especially when> we are going out or trying to create a romantic mood.> What you describe sounds perfect...casual but> feminine.-What are your favorite styles and colors of dresses?> Jade, This is unbelievable. A woman who sets her hair> in rollers is indeed a very feminine lady. I love the> look the rollers give to a womans hair. How often do> you set your hair in rollers?-I find myself doing it often, since I truly love curls. I like to smooth my hands over the corkscrews and play with them. It is fun to stretch them out and see them spring back into place. Sometimes, when pressed for time, I do a simple dual set of just two curls...one on one side of my face near my ear and another one on the other side, like what Jan Brady of The Brady Bunch did. I figure that two ringlets framing my face are better than none at all.> I am going to be completely honest with you on this> last point. Like many men my age, I am balding. There> is an area on the top of my head about the size of> your palm that has very little hair. My hair is BABY> SOFT, black, and slightly wavey. I used to have very> long hair..long enough for a ponytail to my mid back> but I cut it about ten years ago. However I still wear> it longish..long enough to create a small ponytail,> and the back of my head has plenty of hair to run your> fingers through because it is cut bluntly (rather than> shaved in the way a traditional mens haircut might> be).-Thank you for being honest with me. I am sorry to hurt your feelings, but to be perfectly honest, I have a problem with that. Before I get "flamed", please let me remind everyone that this IS a hair fetish board and I have a right to have a hair fetish too. Men aren't the only ones who love a luxurious, generous amount of hair to look at and play with. I am not just seeking a friend, I am also hoping to find someone who attracts me on a sexual level as well...someone to fall in love with. Again, I apologize if I sound rude, but I can't help but love and want...strongly desire a full head of hair. Just the thought of beautiful hair makes a burning need in my heart. Definitely something I seek.I love when a woman plays with it and runs her> fingers through it. I also have a beard but I keep it> short and it is soft.-Again, and this is just my opinion, beards are a major turn-off. I like a clean-shaven face because of the way it feels to the touch and makes a man look. Just my personal preference, I do NOT mean to sound rude.> Thank you for answering every single one of my> questions in a methodical manner. I hope I was able to> do the same.-Thank YOU very much for answering me, Eric.Please let me know if you would like to> continue this exchange of information. I really hope> that you do!!!!-I do, except I fully understand if you wouldn't care to. After all, I wouldn't want to try and change someone just to suit me. Some people don't want to change for anyone else and wish to be appriciated for whom they already are, and I respect that.So if I don't hear from you again, I wish you good luck on your search.Jade

> Jade.... You are most welcome. Have a good day.. and> drop a line when you find that "dream man".> Raj~~~throwing my arms around you~~~~holding you very close~~~~embracing you in a huuuuuuuuuuge hug~~~~~~~~Thank you Raj. You sound like a HONEY of a person. I wish you all the utmost bestest best.Jade

> -Thank you for being honest with me. I am sorry to> hurt your feelings, but to be perfectly honest, I have> a problem with that. Before I get "flamed",> please let me remind everyone that this IS a hair> fetish board and I have a right to have a hair fetish> too. Men aren't the only ones who love a luxurious,> generous amount of hair to look at and play with. I am> not just seeking a friend, I am also hoping to find> someone who attracts me on a sexual level as> well...someone to fall in love with. Again, I> apologize if I sound rude, but I can't help but love> and want...strongly desire a full head of hair. Just> the thought of beautiful hair makes a burning need in> my heart. Definitely something I seek.Jade you have every right to want this and have this. I totally understand where you are coming from. I would like to continue to exchange information for its own sake. Also, I think there is a possibility that all is not lost because for the right person I would do anything (including a hair transplant). I haven't gotten one until now because going bald has not been an issue for me. You have not seen a picture of me. Once you do, you may decide that I turn you on nevertheless. I am not counting on it, but it is possible. I hope you will keep an open mind to this possibility.The reason I feel so strongly about continuing with our exchange is I don't think you will ever meet a man as turned on by curls (and the whole process of creating them) as me. You may find that my excitement is contagious. I ask that you suspend judgement until you have the whole picture.> -Again, and this is just my opinion, beards are a> major turn-off. I like a clean-shaven face because of> the way it feels to the touch and makes a man look.> Just my personal preference, I do NOT mean to sound> rude.This is easy to change, but again once you really experience me you may find this is no longer important. I am willing to shave it off but first I would want you to understand how soft it is.> -Do you like blueberry muffins hot from an oven made> with fresh blueberries?I love them. :))> -I like to set my hair for people who appriciate my> efforts that I do to try to please them. It is a joy> to share my love of curls with someone else and I do> love the feel of kind hands fondling them in> admiration. Maybe others don't see it this way, but I> see a certain special deep intimacy in preparing curls> especially for men whom I date.This is the part of your response that has me hooked in. In this sense you feel like a "soul mate." Please lets explore this a little further. How many times a month would you say you actually put your whole head in rollers?> -What are your favorite styles and colors of dresses?I love casual clothes which are feminine: long country dresses, jumpers, baby doll dresses. Recently velvet has grabbed my interest. Do you own any of these types?> -I find myself doing it often, since I truly love> curls. I like to smooth my hands over the corkscrews> and play with them. It is fun to stretch them out and> see them spring back into place. Sometimes, when> pressed for time, I do a simple dual set of just two> curls...one on one side of my face near my ear and> another one on the other side, like what Jan Brady of> The Brady Bunch did. I figure that two ringlets> framing my face are better than none at all.I LOOOOOOOOVE ringlets, especially framing the face...so romantic..Definitely worth a hair transplant and beard removal.Jade I asked once before but you forgot to answer... What part of the country are you from? I dont need a specific city, just the state or general area of the country.Please write back :))) ERIC