QuoteReplyTopic: Long hair, Age and Walmart/Grocery store Posted: August 31 2003 at 9:31am
Okay, yesterday I was at Public, a grocery store and there was a woman with just longer than classic lenght hair. She had it braided and the braid at the top was super thick while at the bottom it was exceedingly thin, like a pencil. Anyways i wonder what that looks like out of the braid... She was older and the long hair suited her. It was a pretty steel grey/dusty brown,
So seeing her made me think. You know what? I can go into any walmart or Grocery Store and find a very long haired older woman. Its like they all work there. I can go to the movies or a mall or other shopping venues and rarely see a very long haired person. but at walmart and the groceries (and Target/KMart) I see one every time! No matter what time of day either! And more often than not they work there!
Why is this?
It doesnt matter what state im in either. NY, Ohio, SC, FL. Doesnt matter. They are there!
i remember the first super super long girl i saw in a Kmart way back when. Her hair was draggin on the floor and colecting dust (not a pretty sight). But other than the dust it was pretty...but still she was in the Kmart.
Anyways its just an observation. I need to visit walmart today...Ill be looking for the long haired worker =)
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My observations (in FL) are much the same as yours. I often see women with long hair at Publix, Kmart, or Walmart... and rarely at Department Stores in malls.
It can make one wonder why that is, yes. Speculation is the best I can do. Might anybody like to hear such random musings?
If you (or anybody) is still reading, I guess the answer must be "yes." So then, read on...
Could it be that, on average, women with long hair tend to have less "disposable" income and by necessity either need to procure goods at the lowest possible price and/or not have sufficient funds remaining for department store shopping?
Could it be that, on average, women with long hair are more prudent and judicious with their funds?
Could it be that, on average, women with long hair are less interested in the wares sold in department stores?
Mind you, I have absolutely no idea, or theory on "why"... these were just random possibilities that pop to mind.
So who knows? Survey takers, sharpen your pencils.
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so why would they work there too? Are long haired people less apt to work at a department store or in the mall thanks to their appearance? or why not in buisnesses or other random places of employment (even those that do not require "professional appearances".
Like even at the museum I dont see the very long haired gals. i do see longer haired men in every place...generaly. But I see more long bearded men in walmart etc.
Oh, Dave, and here I thought I wouldn't have to do any critical thinking this weekend!
I thought the K-mart, etc. phenomenon was just an Indiana thing!
Hope you are all having a lovely, relaxing weekend! I am, even though it's been raining for two days straight! (I would hate to waste all the picnic food!)
I have long beautiful hair, I'm tan, slim & look very good for 47 years old. I shop at Wal-mart and Macys, Thrift shops and malls. Maybe the reason you see more long haired older women at Wal-Mart is because a discount store such as Wal-mart has more people in it than say a Macys. Anyway I was just wondering what that has to do with long hair support.
I dont know why I cant seem to log in today...anyways, its not just that they shop there but rather that they WORK there! At least thats how it seems to me. Plus places like the movies and the mall do have a high concentration of people and yet I see fewer very long haired people.
And this has nothing to do with support, its just an observation, but it has to do with long hair.
And who was talking about Macys anyways? By departments stores I was thinking of Pennys and Sears or the like. How many people here even have access to places like Macys? Or can afford it?
Personaly i get all my most complimented clothes from thrift stores...
Oh, but i didnt include thrift stores in the long hair sightings...I dont notice long haired people working there or shopping there very often . Just the grocery, walmarts, targets and K marts.
maybe because you can get high dosage of biotin at walmart for only 2 bucks? just a thought
LOL!
Erinlynn, I always get compliments on my consignment and thrift store clothes, too! I always tell people where I bought them. I should probably keep my mouth shut!
Yeah I tell them too! i dont know if its good to be thrify or it makes you look cheap, but it sure does make them look disapointed that they cant go and buy one for themselves!
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Hm, I´m thinking about this, beeing a long way from any of the american states. I´m also a thrift shopper... And I shop at Willy´s, a best-price food chain. I live for my books and my art.
I once had a friend studying at a university in southern Sweden saying that you can tell from the way students dress and wear their hair, what subjects they major in. Well, here, every student wears goretex, to keep warm! But maybe hair, as well as other aspects of the way we look is somehow slightly class related. For example, in Piteå, the neighbouring town, there are a lot more pricy clothing stores, because it´s a more "bourgoise" town, where people have worked in trade, rather than at the steel plant, like us in Luleå. Maybe one could say something about different hair fashions as well, maybe hairdressers have a theory on this.
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Erinlynn, when I go to museums, malls and movie theaters, I see lots of long-haired people... maybe it's because I'm in Florida...? Oh but wait, you say you are also in Florida. Jacqui, a.k.a. hairalways (Hi Jacqui!) lives in the same town that I do, yet our impressions on "how many people here have long hair" are quite different. I guess she's hanging out in the "wrong" parts of town.
No "critical thinking" required, Jean. But I did think about my response after posting it, and came up with a thought similar to that posted by Leona (hello!), that the Wal-mart is always bustling while department stores are not always so busy. Also, department store customers tend to be older (and maybe have more $). Technically, Leona, you are correct, this topic has nothing to do with long hair support... but it encouraged you to post, so it wasn't such a bad topic after all, was it?
I don't see any reason why the scope of this board couldn't be expanded beyond just support. It could include any range of topics related to long hair, including "Long Hair Care," "Long Hair Styling Tricks and Techniques," "The Politics of Long Hair," and so on. Any discussion related to long hair (so long as it is respectful of the hair) is welcome here. Agree?
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Yes, I agree. I think this subject is very well chosen. I´m as obsessed with split ends and conditioner as the next guy on this sight, but sometimes it´s interesting to look beyond the actual hair and reflect on the long hair in society.
Fact is, in the western world, long hair is a very rare thing. As society is becoming more commercial, secular and people move around more, money becomes more important as the means to "buy oneself into" a tribe of ones choice. It´s all about looks and trends and manners. Long hair will never be a trend, it cannot be sold or bought or accuired in the short time that a trend lasts these days. Therefore, really long hair will often be percieved, even if not intended, as an upturned finger on group values and codes. And, as many participants on this forum and others relating to long hair have testified, there is hair related abuse going on in families, workplaces and elsewhere. Like in Simsons days, if your strength seems to be in your hair (beauty, confidence), that´s what controlling, power-needy people will try to take away from you.
I believe that "long hair sightings" and reflections on long haired people is us, in a way, looking for our "lost tribe". One must always try to figure out one´s place in the world and one´s place depends on where everybody else is. Long haired people will check out long haired people as much as Chevrolet lovers will check out each other´s cars. In a spiritual sense, we may even be looking for ourselves. Or maybe it´s just support.
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I frequent WalMart (I LOVE the deals I get there, in every department) and have seen nice looking women with very long hair, but never really thought about it before.
I also noticed that they look like they don't do the blowdrying/curling type styling, because their hair seems to be healthy -- the things you notice when you're trying to grow long hair. I only wish I could grow that type of hair someday.
Kris
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I just know that I will be sure to not work at walmart when my hair is really long...lol...okay im being silly =) But really i dont want to wok at walmart long or shorter haired.
Going with the whole "you can tell a persons major by thier hair" I wonder if you can tell a persons job. maybe the Walmart workers can have whatever style they want so the long haired gals dont feel pressure to cut it and are not discriminated in the hireing process. Where as in other professions and carreers people with "styles" are prefered. Or people feel the need to be styled.
Its like the trailer look. Most of the women Ive met who live in a trailer (and Ive met quite a few with my job, they all seem to want to fill in wetlands) have dyed/bleached blond hair, are very tan and have a hair style from the 80s. Farah Fawcett (sp).
Biologists. What would you picture them looking like? Certainly not long long hair... So I was the atypical biologist. BUT! Im also an artist (painter and drawer), singer and dancer. Sooo, my hair can be explained by that! Ive noticed that artists tend to have longer hair. Singers maybe not so much, and dancers sometimes. But artists quite often!
Dave - You are right...I am in the wrong part of town!
I too notice this phenomenon of hair "districts" within certain stores in town. The Walmart is chock full of long haired women, while the Mall is more "trendy" and short. I attribute it to the money. I am making an observation here, not an opinion....I have noticed that the more affluent, the shorter the hair. This is, of course, in women of 30+...I am not sure why though....ANyone?jacqui
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I worked for a Petrochemical Consulting firm as a pricing analyst for years, and I would say over half of the women who worked there had long hair (almost to the middle part of their back). Many of them pulled their hair back with a long french braid, or a chignon twist.
I also have colored, blonde hair and hope that I'm not trying to duplicate a "Farrah Fawcett" look, as that was more a 70's/80's thing (didn't notice it being any more than that). I think we all go for a look we feel comfortable with and that suits our hair type, lifestyle demands, etc..
Also, wash and go hair for people with busy, corporate positions would seem to be practical because of the amount of hours dedicated to your job. I have a good friend who is a wonderful artist (very talented) and she has short hair. I've been to several art exhibits, and didn't notice that there were any more people with longer hair than short.
Kris
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Kris, not only can grow "that type of hair" someday, you will grow that type of hair someday.
Good question, Jacqui. The money or the short haircuts, which begets which? Sort of like trying to answer the question, "which came first -- the chicken or the egg?" We could guess that possession of the money enabled the "purchase" of the haircuts, but basic haircuts are extremely inexpensive (in other words, lack of funds don't preclude people from getting short haircuts). I think the hairstyles/lengths are more a matter of choices. Why these choices pan out as you notice, I still don't know.
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