This message is a plead for peace. No witchhunt

Do me a favor and forward that whole email to me. I refuse to be a victim for anyone. That person has no guts to come up to me and ask . I wanted to help others and this person supposely is questioning me .Well that person deserve to be exposed.

> I can?Oh ya what a real jem you are . YOu sympathie for me on Jennifer Eve post and challenge now.You are not worth the pain I feel now.

>Go to hell Jerky Flea for not being there for me. All this for what? So that you can drag people through the mud for your own ego? I am not talking to you.I gave you a name to check and when you come back with your sorry you can easily stuff it up your nose. You have no guts. You ask me privately and then I find this shitty post . Go to hell. You are not a gentleman.I am the one that went through hell and I wasn't the only female.It wasn't easy to write it on the internet as in the back of my head others might try to harrass me but you instead of being there for me you challenge me .I am not guilthy. I was the victim. what exactly are you trying to prove? All this for your ego there Jerkyflea. you don't think that it is possible for women to be victim in a crime?Do you go to an accident scene and ask for the proof?Do you go to an rape victim and ask her proof?do you ever beleive anyone in life?I was victimize darm it! Go to hellMen like you give other men bad names in life.

> It would have been more courageous to reply directly> to my post instead of placing it within one called> "Sorry Diane..." that I had not read, nor> intended to read. Had not yet another individual drawn> my attention to your response here, I would never have> read these words of yours directed to me.Courageous? Oh, please. But I will apologize for not addressing you directly.> As for "what I intended by 'pathetic' and what I> wrote," what I intended *was* what I wrote.> Anyhow, your argument is hollow. Just because others> didn't read my words carefully doesn't justify your> doing the same. Context still matters, and you> misrepresented me.Hollow? I think not. As I said, I'm sure I'm not the only one that interpreted that way and you are hiding behind semantics.JFRelated Link:JerkyFlea's Celebrity Hair Spray

> Poor Jerky Flea often gets accuse of not reading message correctly and I wish that his next reply would be a real sorry Diane to the one I wrote that is scary.

> Hello Jerky Flea:This is a very serious message that I am going to share with you and everyone that might have thought my actions were silly or I was taking this too seriously. I have given it a lot of thought and decided it was time to share this I am very much a fighter in life and won't step down for anyone that loves to harrass me etc.About one year ago or so I was stalk by someone on the internet that loves cutting long hair. I did my researched and learned I wasn't the only one. This story can easily be proved Jerky Flea. Believe me I can prove this.At the time I was a visible target because I was strong pro long hair person. YOu can go back to the archive and see all the messages that took place and see I am telling the truft. Since then I mellow down. Yes I am still a pro long hair lover but I do appreciate short hair also . Commen sense.This man took pleasure by sending me hate letters. He said he would love to get a hold of me, cut my hair , shave it , and took out my teeth etc.Okay I threathened this man and all of sudden I got a few phone calls . Yes and you wonder how this is done. Very easy everyone. If your phone number is not unlisted believe me it can be found on the internet including your address.Lucky me I have friends that are lawyers, judge and I know a few policemen so my letters were handed over to the law.Maybe some people don't like me on the internet and some love my character but noone can say that I am the keep that isn't a fighter.Yes JerkyFlea I am very much the type that will hunt down my stalker and throw that person in jail no matter where in this world. Lucky for him he back off in time.How many times I hear someone say that they found someone that collect ponytails. Or maybe you Jerky Flea even heard of the stories of long hair women walking down a street and a creap comes up and cuts their hair.YEs there are some real people out there that would love to distroy someone's long hair.NOw for the record I am not against Brian. I asked him a few questions and he didn't answer. I have invited him to the politic board as I found it to be a fair way and he hasn't shown up. I thought it was appropriate thing to do since we have been talking about his video.Yes I fly off the handle because my experiences and alerted my long hair buddies and in their thoughts they had many of the same concerns and some of them had diffirent concerns. Some of them don't express themselve very well and acted on their emotions but it is a real concern for some of us that have been harrassed.Now to answer Ally question. If the tape was about how to give a haircut well I wouldn't have reacted. My girlfriend could benefit from a video like that since she cuts her husband's hair and so do others.What alarmed me was it was a video of a long hair woman having her hair cut which feeds the needs of the hair cutting fetish which harrasses some of us long hair women.For all I know Brian got caught up on a lets make a sale and there is a market for it and noone will get hurt and Jenna needs $1,000 to go to the college etc.But the reality is it does feeds the needs of that crime.I wish all the best to Brian seriously and this will explain the reason why I was involved.at times I really wish this politic board would take the time to really ask the right question. It wasn't a long hair vs short hair. There were some real concerns.

...I'm not going to do it.I was simply making an observation on how easy it is for people to stereotype a board or group of people based on a series of posts. Folks forget that whatever they post here, no matter how badly thought out or in the heat of the moment, is going to stay up here (unless it's outright offensive). Readers can have a very difficult time discerning when someone is less serious than they come across since there are no facial expressions in a post other than the ubiquitous smiley faces.> I am not please to have received two messsage from> Brians concerning this situation in the personal> section.Not sure why you became the lightning rod for the Brians, but that's not my fault. Especially since I (and I'm sure that I'm not the only one) that had no clue "bb" was also a Brian.> I am not please to see that JerkyFlea started> a thread that could only start a witch hunt per say .> This is not worth it.> This is not about short hair vs long hair.> I really don't understand the need for that kind of> thread only exposing people to be hurt.> I am asking Jerky flea to volunteering kill his thread> because it will be repeat of degrading messages and> very hurt feelings.Like I said, Diane, I'm not planning on joining hands and singing Kumbuyah on this one. I wasn't intending any sort of "witchhunt", I just wanted folks to be aware of the possible consequences of what they posted.Oh, and Lady Godiva? I'm sure I'm not the only one that didn't draw the fine line between what you intended by "pathetic" and what you wrote.> We would have never had any discussion of any type if> this Brian would have respected the web master wish of> no advertisement so I am asking is this worth it?Yes, but we can't undo the fact that he came by. Let's assume that someone else found the site and posted the link simply to show us what he or she considered a great makeover or a terrible haircut. The only difference would have been that those posting wouldn't have had the opportunity to respond to Brian directly.> Everyone has a right to their feelings about hair and> I really don't want to see any of my internet friends> get hurt in the process.Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but as Jena said, this IS a Hair Politics board. If you post an opinion, then you have to accept the consequences of what you wrote. If you don't want to do that, then don't post.Later,JerkyFleaRelated Link:JerkyFlea's Celebrity Hair Spray

> Hey if you are looking for a neat book about braids I> have bought this neat one on the internet.> It is called hair a book of braiding and styles by> Anne Akers Johnson.> I found it very interesting and the instructions very> simple to follow.The book sounds good, but its going to be a LONG time before my hair is long enough to do anything very complicated-- I can barely french braid it as it is w/ the layers.....maybe someday! On a brighter note, THREE people this week commented that they noticed my hair was getting longer!DawnRelated Link:The Piano Bloopers Page

> I am hugging you Dawn. NO problem. My fears got carried away I guess. I didn't want to see any of my friends hurt in the process that is all.Hey if you are looking for a neat book about braids I have bought this neat one on the internet.It is called hair a book of braiding and styles by Anne Akers Johnson.I found it very interesting and the instructions very simple to follow.

>I agree it is only hair and I often say that Dawn.>> (happy because her hair is FINALLY long enough to> french braid!)I am very happy for you that your hair is finally long enough to french braid. I bought a book recently and it contains a lot of diffirent kinds of braid. I found it very interesting and helpful.have a nice hair day the other Dawn