Should I get a perm? Please respond!!!

Hi sherry-i can tell you're anxious for input, so i will give you mine. while i am not really a pro with perms, i do know the essential basics.first of all, keep in mind that perms have come a long way in the past decade. i'm talking about those that you can have done at a salon. These days perms need not be terribly damaging, and there are many varieties out there, depending on the type of curl you want. Likewise, the way the curl is rolled effects the size and quality of the curl.When you consider the above, you'll recognize that the most important thing about getting a perm is going to a *good salon*! perms involve strong chemicals, which alter the nature of your hair (just as hair color does), so you dont want to risk doing a perm at home. also, the quality of the perms from drugstores is totally inferior and much harsher than what you'll receive at a good salon.i suggest you find a picture or two of the type of curls you like. consult with a good hair stylist, explaining in detail (using the picture, too) what your natural hair type is like, and what results you're after. armed with this information, the stylist should be able to produce great results.if you feel, after reading this, that you are wary of taking this step and dont want to perm your hair, remember there are many ways to create temporary curl, and not damage your hair at all. there are many new curl-inducing shampoos, conditioners, and styling aids that will help you.best wishes :) silvie