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    Posted: January 12 2000 at 6:06am
My husband gets obviously aroused everytime I make a change with my hair — new cut, new color, perm, extensions, etc. — and, frankly, I enjoy getting him aroused by making a change every few months. However, I am curious . . . is this normal? Is it a fetish? Does he feel as if he is with a different woman each time I make a change? He's also always eager to talk about what changes I'll make next. Does anyone else have a husband or boyfriend who likes hair changes? A friend of mine says that her husband demands that her hair never changes. Does my husband's attitude (or that of my friend's husband) sound familiar, please respond. I'm just curious.
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This is a topic better addressed in the Hair Politics board.See the link below.Related Link:Hair Politics Board
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I took your advice. Thanks for the link and for your thoughtfulness. (This message-board stuff is new to me). Thanks again!
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I'm a guy and I love women with long hair, but I find it even sexier when a woman with short hair is growing her hair long. I love it when women with long hair have it tied back for the first time. But I don't find it sexy when women cut their hair short cos I like shoulder length or long hair.So I guess it just depends on what the guy likes really.
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> My husband gets obviously aroused everytime I make a> change with my hair — new cut, new color, perm,> extensions, etc. — and, frankly, I enjoy getting him> aroused by making a change every few months. However,> I am curious . . . is this normal? Is it a fetish?> Does he feel as if he is with a different woman each> time I make a change? He's also always eager to talk> about what changes I'll make next. Does anyone else> have a husband or boyfriend who likes hair changes? A> friend of mine says that her husband demands that her> hair never changes. Does my husband's attitude (or> that of my friend's husband) sound familiar, please> respond. I'm just curious.
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this may not be an answer, but i have somewhat of a similar problem. i want to change my hair style often to arouse my man, but it doesn't affect him. whenever i want to do something different, i always ask him what he thinks i should do with my hair and he just says it's my head and i'm the one who has to live with it. But i strongly value his opinion. i even thought about asking him to go to the for me. and i've told him i love it when he plays with my salon with me, but i'm a little shy. hair is a big thing hair, runs his fingers through it, he even likes to try and style it for me. So, how can i get him to either go with me to the salon or tell me what he wants me to get done. We've been together for almost 4 years and i know he loves me the way i am, but i want to change things. any advice would be deeply appreciated. thanks
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I wish I had a girl like you!! :) I love it when a girl changes her hair and it really turns me on when a girl lets me play with her hair. I agree that it's your head and it's up to you how you wear your hair, but if I was asked I'd definitely come to the salon to help a girl choose.How is your hair now?Personally my favorite hairstyle on women is straight just below the shoulders, so she can wear it up and I can play with it and let it down for her.
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Hi, Dave!!Well, right now my hair is about 2 or 3 inches past my shoulders. Right now my bangs are giving me the most problem cuz they grew too fast. i've been wearing them pulled back, but i'd like to have them on my forehead. But I'm not about to pay $10 at the salon for someone else to cut them. I'd do it myself, but knowing me I'd cut them crooked. Call me crazy, but I was even gonna ask my boyfriend to do it. I wish i had a boyfriend like you. I go totally crazy when he plays with my hair, all i want is for him to give me his opinion, instead of just telling me it's my head and everything else. i know that, but it would be so nice for him to say i think you should have it cut this way. You know? who knows maybe you and i can become good penpals about this subject, feel free to email me at my address anytime. Hope to get a response soon.> ,>>>>
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Hi Laurie,It's laurie. I know it's hard to believe from reading my initial post on the subject, but I had a hard time getting my husband (then boyfriend) to comment on my hair during the first years of our relationship. In fact, my feelings were extremely similar to yours: I wanted HIS input! In time, however, he came around to my way of thinking. Now he enjoys giving input. We have a great time with it. Please feel free to E-mail me (lauriesk@hotmail.com) if you would like a step-by-step description of how I gained, and continue to get, his input on my hairstyles. Be patient, he's shy about it right now. It will change with time.
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