I have to agree with Demodoll. People in general looked better in the mid 80s. I would much rather do business with a well dressed man or woman than someone in clothes 12 sizes to big or way way to tight and skirts up to who knows where on someone older than 6 years old. I also think we had a little more self respect than people have now. Think about it if you look good you generally feel good too. I also " came of age" in the eighties. By the way I am 48 so I've already lived through the low rise, flared, belly hanging out 70s and I will be glad to see it creep back under the rocks again.
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I see where you're coming from, Katrin, but let me put a few things into perspective. For one thing, not everyone is as sloppy as you suggest. Some choose to be, while others (like me, more or less) wear jeans and t-shirts, and still others wear "business casuals", even if their workplace allows jeans. And there are still those who (whether by dress code or by choice) wear suits and ties. I am an easygoing guy and would hate to have to dress up just so I can go to work in an average workplace. For me, "self respect" means making my own decision about how I'm going to dress, if that doesn't make a significant impact on the job I do. And for my line of work (education), I think there is absolutely nothing wrong with totally casual clothes. And I would say the same thing for the mainstream business world in many cases, though here, "business casual" or even ties are more likely to be required. When you do business with someone, I think you should care about that person's skills, honesty and relevance to your relationship. If it were up to me, I'd call caring too much about professional dress UNprofessional. Anyway, most of the people I know are not particularly sloppy, and whatever the ups and downs of their style, often look IMO more natural than many people in the 1980s.
Sorry to get so controversial. I'm not trying to scream at you or anything, just to make a point about something I feel strongly about. There is nothing wrong with dressing up (though uncomfortable ties are one of the most useless inventions ever) but it should be optional in most jobs.
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No offense taken, Duke. Hell I live in Florida so casual is the way of life here. I just feel like some people should take a really LONG look in the mirror before they leave for the day (sometimes me included). Thanks for responding. I'm new to this so I hope you aren't offended by my little tirade.
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