I`m Still needing advice.

With all due respect, I think you`re being too fussy. It seems to me that what is most important is that you`re comfortable with the person cutting your hair and the job she does. You`re only in the beauty salon for a short time, yet you have to live full-time with the results!

In short, we can`t control everything in life, so we have to choose what is most important.

At least you`re allowed into beauty salons today. A few decades ago, you would have been laughed right out of the beauty parlor.

Jennifer

Next time I go to her salon I`m going to take her some flowers and thank her . I feel like such a heel.

I went to see my hairdresser today. I took her some really pretty flowers, a Boyds Bear figurine that shows two bears in a beauty salon, and a thank you card. I told her I was sorry if i ever hurt her feelings in any way. I didn`t mean to in any way. She told me that i had`nt hurt her feelings at all. She told me I was one of her favorite clients and she looks forward to my visits. She asked me what gave me the idea that i had upset her. I said no reason, just thought i might have. I wanted to tell her I was still having difficulty with her move to the new salon. I`m trying to get used to it. I know I`m lucky just to be going to a beauty salon, and i feel very grateful to her. I still feel very uncomfortable. I hav`nt told her why i feel uncomfortable there though. I`m asking myself if i should or not. The owner of the salon the last time i was there was listening in on my conversation with my hairdresser. When my hairdresser went to the back room to mix up the color for my highlights. He walked over to this drawer and pulled out clippers waved them around in front of me and put them on his table, right where i could see them. I knew he was not going to use them on the lady that was seated in his chair because she had hair that was mid way down her back. I was there the whole time his client was there, and when she left so did he. This really upset me. Maybe I`m wrong here in my thinking. I havent wanted to tell anybody about how much this angered me until now. i was afraid that i could cause her trouble. This is one of the major reasons why I dont like this new salon. He`s there everytime i go into the salon. The whole time i was at the salon after i gave her the gifts i stayed quiet and kept my eyes closed. I never said a word. She kept asking me why i was so quiet. I told her i just was`nt feeling well. I guess from now on I should just stay quiet and keep my eyes closed while i`m at the salon.