soft looking hair

*deep condition atleast once a week with a deep conditioning treatment thingy suchas TIGI or KERASTASE (only found in proffesional hair salons)
*deep condition the bottom length of ur hair (the dry bits, not ur scalp) with hot oil treatment every 2 weeks as well
*stop using ANY heat styling tools suchas hairdryer straightening irons etc., atleast until ur hair has become alot softer
*use a moisturising mousse suchas frizz ease corrective styling mousse when hair is wet and allow ur hair to air dry. This will help define ur wavy locks
*use a leave in conditioner as well a couple of times a week

:| hope this was of help to u :)