Bad hair day, every day

First of all, stop washing your hair every day. Most people with curly/frizzy hair can get away with washing their hair 2-3 times a week only. And I know what you mean. I have thick, curly, frizzy, damaged hair. I have every hair-care product under the sun, and at 13 years old I have tried shampoos, conditioners, frizz-ease serums, gels, mousses, and even considered relaxing my hair. My suggestion is this: Wash your hair once every 2-4 days with a hydrating shampoo (I use Aussie Moist Shampoo). Follow with a conditioner, preferably one that defines curl. Always leave in the conditioner for about four or five minutes, then wash it out with cold water to increase shine. After that, squeeze out excess water gently- DON'T TOWEL DRY! I have done this before, and looked like I hadn't brushed my hair in weeks. Then use a small amount of leave in conditioner (I use Infusium 23 leave-in conditioner) and follow up with a curl-defining gel. Scrunch your hair with your fingers to bounce the curls up, and don't heat-style or do anything to blow your hair around. I know it's a lot to do, but it really does work if you're willing to take the time and spend the money. But it does get tiring after awhile. I confess that after all these years of trying to embrace my curliness, I have decided to go straight. I'm trying Curl-Away non-chemical relaxer. (at xenna.com) I haven't tried it yet though. Anyway, good luck on your hair, and tell me how it works out! With curly hair, you can never expect a miracle from ordinary hair-care products, but it does make a difference!

Hey, I know how you feel to... I have curly hair too!!! Lucky me..........lol. anyways I have put my hair through alot before ding to get straight hair and now my hair is really dry, but I know how to handle it, If you have to wet your hair to style it, just wet it, apply a thick conditioner a.k.a. Herble essences instensive blends intence condition, leave on for 3-5 min. Then rince out with luke warm water, lightly towle dry, don't rub, and do nothing, when you hair is a little less damp rub a gel my fav is salon selectives in control, and scruch it through your curls. When you have a bath 2-3 times a week, use Hot oil or a mask til your hair looks alot healthier, then reduce to once a week, cuz curly hair always needs extra moisture... good bye frizz, hello gorgeous!!!!