Need insight on growing hair out of relaxer!!!!!!!!!!

Aiight check this out. I went to a different hair salon then my usual 1 b/c they had a lower price. There were several things that seemed shaky. I asked the stylist to trim my ends(I get this done every 4 wks). She suggested that i SHOULD WAit until I get a touch up. I told her that I wont be getting 1 for a long time since Im giving my hair a break from all the chemicals. Then she said " well if u dont get a perm, your hair will fall out"

Now this is B.S. because I`ve gone without a perm for 7 mths now and I `ve noticed nothing unusual: no breakage, hair clumps, damage etc....

So today, my friend`s mother went to the same salon. She talked with the hair stylist and she supposedly remarked that my hair WILL fall out if I dont get a perm and that my scalp is deteriorating(I have a seasonal dandruff problem) because I use olive oil instead of hair grease and that I need a treatment or something.....

Like I said...people go a long time without relaxers. I`ve never witnessed any breakage in my hair. i take good care of it. I dont use hair greas because it clogs and it makes my hair heavy and weighs it down. I dont get relaxers too often because the chemicals are damagng...plus my hair grows faster the longer I wait in between touchups.
Is it possible that my hair will break off, fall out, etc????????

Chaos wrote: Aiight check this out. I went to a different hair salon then my usual 1 b/c they had a lower price. There were several things that seemed shaky. I asked the stylist to trim my ends(I get this done every 4 wks). She suggested that i SHOULD WAit until I get a touch up. I told her that I wont be getting 1 for a long time since Im giving my hair a break from all the chemicals. Then she said " well if u dont get a perm, your hair will fall out" Now this is B.S. because I've gone without a perm for 7 mths now and I 've noticed nothing unusual: no breakage, hair clumps, damage etc.... So today, my friend's mother went to the same salon. She talked with the hair stylist and she supposedly remarked that my hair WILL fall out if I dont get a perm and that my scalp is deteriorating(I have a seasonal dandruff problem) because I use olive oil instead of hair grease and that I need a treatment or something..... Like I said...people go a long time without relaxers. I've never witnessed any breakage in my hair. i take good care of it. I dont use hair greas because it clogs and it makes my hair heavy and weighs it down. I dont get relaxers too often because the chemicals are damagng...plus my hair grows faster the longer I wait in between touchups. Is it possible that my hair will break off, fall out, etc????????

Well, I think it is true that your hair will experience some breakage if you don`t get regular touchups. When your hair is two different textures, thick at the roots and straight at the ends, it can snag when you comb over your hair. I usually touch up my 4a type hair every 8 weeks and get a trim as well. I also use olive oil for my hair. I don`t grease my scalp because you are clogging your scalp pores. Olive oil is very moisturizing. I use carrot oil for my ends because it is a little more heavier and it keeps my ends moisturized. The only way to grow out a relaxer is to cut the relaxed hair. If you get regular trims eventually the relaxed ends will disappear. I have also used Motions CPR shampoo and it does something to the texture of your hair. Its almost like it reverts it back to its natural state. I had a relaxer a 2 1/2 weeks ago and I used the CPR and my hair is curly at the roots and it seems as if I need another touhup. I also used it on my niece`s hair and it totally washed out her relaxer. Its true. So you should try it if you are really looking to get rid of your relaxer. HTH