products for a guy tryin to grow out his hair

Basically my hair now http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B0000029GA.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg and what i want it too look like http://images.chron.com/content/news/photos/01/11/04/lkravitz.jpg but how do i get it spaced out lookin like that i no my cousin did with some type of product from infusium23 and i dont wanna do it unaturally andy1 got any products that can do the same thing im pretty sure some type of frizz ontrol product could do it