need new hair product (curly hair) !!

So i used to use this KUZA coconut oil product on my hair along with gel that was sold at this black beauty shop...but it seems as if the manufacture has discontinued the coconut oil. Ive tried other coconut oil brands...but none of them work as well as the old one.

the thing is that my hair is really dry and thick(its like an afro shape...and when i used to put the coconut oil it would be shiny and curly...i guess u can say greasy) So ive been trying other things and have had no luck so far

Ive tried:

gel alone-didnt work because it made my hair very frizzy and messy

pomade-didnt work, the curls were messy rather than neat

i bough got2b glue and im going to try wax next...anyone have any tips?! im also thinking about trying various greases...i guess i need the grease in my hair to make the curls and allow my hair to stay shiny and not dry...anyone know any good brands??

here's a pic of how my hair looks with the coconut oil...
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/xxsan...f8a.jpg&.src=ph

and here's a pic of how it looks dry:
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/xxsan...887.jpg&.src=ph