I am going to cry. Why did I cut all of my hair off?

You "did" sell out for your job, or it seems like it. It may be cruel to say it, but you DID choose this, live with it.

Hey! Sorry you're not happy with your hair :( . Don't feel too bad...everyone makes a BIG mistake with their hair at some point (or like some of us, many times). Just remeber that its up to YOU to decide on what you like- don't give in to pressure or expectations. If you like your hair super-long, then it doesn't matter what anyone thinks, even if it is for a job or whatever. You're your own unique person and if anything or anyone attempts to stifle that, then they are doing you an injustice.
Good luck growing your hair back & I hope it turns out as long and beautiful as you could ever wish for :)

Love,
Inga

PS- Hey Kintaro- that was kinda harsh...how about a little sympathy?

Contrary to the last post, do listen to me on occasion, I'm just sorry about the harshness, I have seen 2 girls get totally deceived in similar situatins (one for a job, one for her prom), and I honestly think that it is the worst thing that could happen to them in those circumstances short of being shot or run over. Sorry if my hatred crossed over :)

Hi Touw,

What had a new job having to do with long hair? Anyway, I hope you'll have long hair again.

Anne-Loes

I had cut my hair because it was fried beyond repair. But I'm wondering how many people have cut or changed their color or style for a job? This is very odd to me. If you are pressured to change your hair or any part of you for a job then it seems to me that your job has ownership of you. This is actually really scary to me, seriously. Has anyone been approached at work about their appearance? Since when did long hair become unprofessional?

No - I'm afraid the "Grow your hair quick" pills don't work. However, if you have an imbalanced or junk food diet, then a good multivitamin may help. Also ensure you are getting sufficient protein (minimum of 0.5 grams for every kilogram of body weight).

The roots of the hair are key. Try and gently massage your scalp (search the internet for sites that will show you how). This will stimulate blood supply to the growing follicles.

Having said that, any changes as a result of the above are going to be subtle and pay off in the longer term.
You have had long hair and you know the patience that requires - there is nothing except time that will "cure" your present dilemma.

I suggest you treat this situation as an opportunity to nurture your hair and pamper it, so that by the time it reaches your waist again, it is in better condition than it was originally. There are lots of tips on these boards and most of them are effective, fun and scary (satin bonnets...).

Anyway, I wish you well and thank you for sharing your lesson with us all: Jobs are temporary - hair is for life.

Lady Maria I'd have to object It's great that you like your hair but this girl obviously doesn't - trying to convince her otherwise could in a bad situation discourage her from growing it out again and having the hair she really wants. Just because you like something, doesn't mean it's possible for everyone too. I'm a guy but I'd still hate to have Pixie (That's about 2 inches long right?) length hair, even though my hair is an untamable mess at the moment. Hair is part of person: Having it cut when you want it long is like missing a limb, having too long when you want it short can be like being too fat.

I know this was written a few months ago, but I just want to say that I've been there, too! I know that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach that says, "What the %$#@! was I thinking?!"

However, it's completely fruitless to dwell on the negative. Look forward. Keep the hair as healthy as you can, and hey, be thankful that you have enough for a ponytail!

Also, relish the ultra thick ends that you probably have.