help needed please

im new to this site but im loving it already

 

i need your help please. sorry this is so long

 

i have recently had a baby ( my little boy is 15 weeks old now) and my hair is in a bit of a state, not because i had a baby but because of my hormones and what they made me do

 

i have fine hair that is naturally a mucky brown colour, i havent had my hair uncoloured since i was 15 as i hate it so much. I used to have shoulder lenght hair that was highlighted blonde which i loved. I usually have my hair coloured at hairdressers.

 

When i got pregnant the highlights didnt take to my hair so in my wisdom i decided to dye it brown ( i hate my hair brown as it does nothing for me except make me look very pale and ill) well it didnt go brown it went a strange reddy / orange colour.

 

whilst i was pregnant i coloured my hair 3 times with different brands / shades and everytime they all went the same strange red / orange colour.  after i had my son i decided to colour my hair a deep red (again dont know why as doesnt suit me) i hated this from the moment i coloured it  and i tried everything to cover it up (washing it everyday in vosen and recolouring it brown) nothing works but i have now coloured my hair again ( last week) and its now a warm brown which i can live with for now.

when should i be able to got for this highlighting blonde again and will me putting so many different colours on it cause any problems with this?

 

when i was pregnant i also had my hair cut into a very short crop ( i do like my hair short but deff prefer it longer) i had it cut so short because it had gone a funny colour and because it started to look very wirey because of my hormones. well i am now trying to grow this out and i currently have a pageboy cut ( well sort of) and i hate it

 

i am currently taking kelp tablets as these helped me grow my hair for my wedding last year, is there anything you can recommend that will help my hair grow faster to enable me to have it cut into some sort of style?

 

sorry this is so long im just hating my hair colour and style at the minute

 

please can you offer any help / advice