a hairdresser making you look 40 to 50 years older

I am in a dilemna I want my hair cut to tips of my shoulder from having long hair. She cut it to my ears. I am only 41 years old. My neighbors asked me when am I going to sign up for the senior citizens. I am not very happy at all with the cut. It makes me  look like I am 81 or 91 years old. I always hated short hair and I will never go shorter than my tips of the shoulders. I always  known I will look alot older than what I am with short hair. Not only she did my hair that way she did my mom the same way and it also looks like my mom is 103 years old. She is only 67 years old. She also hates short hair. I am tempted to  write an nasty note to the hair salon were we had it done. I will like to know what to do.  My mom and I refused to go back. We both have natural  thick curly hair. She also hated this cut. I been telling people who need a haircut to not go to this salon .I tell them to go to someone else who will understand there hair.

Edited by ragdollragdoll - March 31 2007 at 2:34pm