jeans for guys

ahh okay, this is sort of a weird question.

For jeans: when guys wear them on the waist (basically the height you see the models wear on online shopping etc.), it looks a little feminine, especially for tall skinny people, with bootcut.

But when you sag them, the thigh area moves down to a thinner part of your leg, and it makes your legs look fat.

If you buy a bigger waist size, then the upper part which is cut bigger is even larger, so it makes your butt look fat.

So basically, does anyone know of any jeans that are cut tighter around the seat/thigh compared to the rest? or any other solution that you can come up with.

The closest solution ive found is seven for all mankind jeans, but that is a little expensive to have multiple pairs.

and for the girls, what kinds of jeans would you say work best on guys?

Thanks a bunch