BLow-out for fine hair..

What is the best advice for drying fine hair while styling it with a brush and hairdryer? My hair is very fine/thin, and very straight (and bleach highlights too). I have been trying to just go with the natural texture and wear it straight and parted kind of on the side-it`s pretty much all one length. How can I blow dry it to get a better style without dazmaging it? It seems like when I try to do what all the professionals do my fine hair either gets tangled up while drying or just flies away when I`m trying to style it? What should I do?