complex color trauma/drama. Need advise!

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   Hi everyone. first I want to give some background so you can have a better understanding about what my poor hair has been through.

I have been dying my hair at home for 9 years at home and never had problems untill I went to a stylist!  Since last year I went from dark brown to blonde, back to dark brown, and then to red.  Surprisingly my hair was in pretty good condition, but I could tell it was slowly getting worse since the red faded and looked crappy so quickly and needed touched up so often.  I  decided that this is enough! I want to grow my hair long and I want to go back to my real color so I don't have to dye it anymore.  I decided to go to a stylist because I have never dyed over red hair before and I figured she could do the best job in making the new color fade resistant.
Boy was I wrong. my natural color is a light ash brunette so I asked her to do highlights too thinking it would make it look less dull when it started to fade.  It took this person 4 hours to do my hair (I am talking about the length of time the dye was on my hair I was actually there for 5 hours) and she was even cutting other people's hair when I was under the dryer.  I thought it was strange for her to do this, but I assumed she knew what she was doing. After all that I was outraged to find that the color didn't take and she totally fried my hair. I feel so insulted.
Now down to my question.  I know you can't get red out without a stripper.  I  have used a color stripper a few times before at home and have been able to do it in a way that my hair didn't suffer badly and turned out ok.  I am tempted to try it again because I am determined to win this battle to go natural.  I am afraid because 1)  I have never used stripper on red hair before and 2) my hair is very fragile and this might make or break me.......but I think it might be ok if I just wait for a month or so and deep condition untill the time comes.  I am afraid to go to the salon again and I can't afford it.  I had to save money forever to go last time and I feel more comfortable coloring my own hair now than having someone else do it.  My hair has been through so much!  I just want to get back to my natural light ash brown color so I can stop the torture. lol. 

Does anybody think this plan will be successfull?  I need some hardcore hair people with experience to help me with this one please!!!!! I am desperate and still a little upset.  I think my hair is upset too :)