Well he has not said anything about it, so I guess he was feelin too good to notice...
But you are right when I was dating the hater.... It put a damper on our relationship because it's my money and Ima do me!
Look he didn't hesitate to get his rap on when he met me, but when we decided to commit, he switched up on me...And I am not changing for anyone. This makes me happy so it is what it is!
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yall crazy, I say strap it on tight and let him get rough a little bit. I like it a little when my husband does it. I say thats part of the fun and benfit of not wearing tracks. As long as he dont get too crazy..... get ya freak on. every lf wearer get ya freak on rothfl
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Well i think your experience depends on if the guy is "YOUR" guy, or "A" guy if you know what I mean.
If its "your" guy just tell him what I tell my boyfriend "This is look sexy hair, not get ruff hair. If you get to ruff and it comes off, I will NO longer look sexy, cause I can go from Beyonce, to Celie from color purple in no time"
If its "A" guy, i would tell him exactly what you told us "I don't like it when anybody touches my hair" I dont think thats a terrible request.
Either way he should just be happy that hes getting some!!
Ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!
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You guys are soo hilarious...I was talking with "my baby daddy" yesterday and I sent him a picture of my new hairstyle....he tells me, "yeah i got your pic" and i'm like, "oooook what do you think", he tells me go listen to the song by india arie "i am not my hair"....so of course attitude comes over me then he proceeds to say how much he hates these lace wigs...he likes natural hair, even though no one would know I am wearing a wig he knows and can't stand it....then he says since you have been wearing these things you have changed...that's all you care about it this damn hair. I started bustin up y'alll. Yes, I am a hair crack addict, no doubt but I am about doing what makes me feel good about me.. Yes I am wearing lace wigs to grown my natural hair out after I messed it up last year and even when my hair grows back I will still be rockin lace wigs because I love the versatility. So needless to say, I could care less if he likes my hair or not, I gone rock my hair however I wanna rock my hair cause it makes me feel good and look good
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LL I understand. I have had my OMG moments in the middle of getting bizzy but I was more concerned that my nape was lifting LOL... can you imagine half the wig flipped up over the back of your head????
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One of my closest friends (one of the few that know the deal with me wearing lf's) asked me what happens when I'm being intimate with my husband. lolol...... I told her he's not into pulling my hair, the only thing he requests is that I leave it out. Because of course I tie my hair up every night.
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LL you gonna have to come out of the closet eventually. Hair is such a funny thing though. Me and my sweety have been together for about a year. Now when we first started dating i was wearing a full weave with just the front of my own hair out.He would pull on it with no problem cause that baby was sewn in TIGHT!! I always assumed that he knew it wasnt my hair. When i made the transition to LW about 6 months into the relationship, do you know this man had a nerve to tell me how fast my hair was growing latley. I looked at him like he was the VILLAGE IDIOT.(men can be soo naive) But i dint say nothin. It wasnt until I had an embarrasing moment with him that i let the cat out of the bag about my LW.
Now he even helps me with my apps if I'm having a slippage issue or something. I've even gone to get my own hair done once, in a Dominican blowout, just so he can see "the real me". But I will say that I will NEVER let him see me with these jailhouse cornrows in my hair. Thats just too much.
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LOL at jailhouse cornrows......
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I agree with Sexi - men are totally oblivious! The other night, I was getting rather intimate with someone and I was so aware that my application was horrendous - like it had all lifted at the back and none of the lace was stuck down properly around the entire perimeter.
This guy started grabbing the back of my head and putting his hands all over my nape - it was as though he was tring to gove my scalp a damn good massage! BUT HE HAD NO CLUE I WAS WEARING A UNIT!
If I could get away with all that, then we girls have NOTHING to worry about when it comes to guys sussing us out!
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