I really need help very I'm unhappy!

Okay, firstly to say I'm male mixed with very little African-American and a lot of Indian. So therefore it's made my hair very thick and my hair is naturally curly at the ends. My hair stops at my shoulders and to be honest I'm unhappy with it. It doesn't want to stay down or in a right order it's very thick and unmanigable. For me to even spike it I would have to cut it very short since my hair is this thick it'd only flop right over.

I'm wanting to have my hair type or texture whatever you want to call it changed completely. I'd like it to be that either just like or similar to the kind of hair caucasians usually have. I'm a guy so I really wouldn't know of things or where to go to find products to help me so does anyone out there know how to help me get what I want? If you need me to be more specific I will the general idea is just to change my hair to be like a caucasians. Silky, Smooth, Shiny, Flowy. When I mean flowy I mean that by moving freely.

Please help me I've been trying to find ways for almost about a year now and I'm hoping theres something to do it there must be. :/

I sent oyu a message so could you perhaps reply to that?