Good products for short hair.

Long time no see, everyone! When I had bra strap length hair, my hair was extremely wavy and dry. Now that I've cut it into a short shag/bob, the overall condition of my hair has improved enormously. My hair is still a bit on the dry side, but not nearly as bad as it used to be! I'm looking for a good clarifying shampoo for my hair (to get all the wax and minerals from hard water out), a good moisturizing shampoo, and a good conditioner. I've heard so much about All Soft---will it make my hair so soft that it won't curl? I've had problems with that in the past--my hair gets so soft that it just sort of lays there. Any suggestions? Thanks!