what am i doign wrong?

ok i got a problem, heres what i do to my hair first.

First i wash it, using shampoo and conditioner.
Next i towel dry it , until its damp.
Next i add some light gel all over my hair.
Then i add some wax all over.

Then i work some gel over the bangs to give it a curtain look. at the bangs i kind of grab the hair, smooth some gel into it (quite strong gel) pull it away from my hair, then hold my finger against my head and pull the hair so at the roots of the bangs it curves up, then goes down.

Problems im having are, after the day i washed my hair and the day after that, my hair is puffyish and lame, but the next day its sleek cool looking and just the way i want it, but the gel leaves residue and holds just a bit too much. i want my hair to look good all the time , and not go puffy, i also want the bangs to be held in position while allowing for movement, but not to have residue.

here are some products i looked at for stopping the puffyness, if someone could please tell me how i can work them into my normal washing and styling habbits to get the look i want i would really really be grateful, ok here they are:





description:smoothes & preps hair's surface for faster, easier blow-drying & super-sleek, shiny results. Frizz-Ease System- prescribed for dry, frizz prone hair. 1 cleanse, 2 condition, 3 smooth and de-frizz, step 4 style: straight results. Specially formulated to speed and ease blow-drying by combating the porosity problem associated with this hair type. Styling resins smooth and resurface hair for optimal straight results. Improves elasticity; leaves hair satin-smooth and super-shiny. Alcohol-free formula.

and this one



description: Secret Agent lightly lubricates hair leaving it supple,smooth and shiny.It gives 24 hr coverage,permeating the hair shaft,taming static and flyaway hair.With a sunscreen to help protect from UV damage.applied to dried hair. Instantly transforms puffy, parched hair into a perfect smooth, supple, shiny texture

ok thats the products to stop the puffyness, now for the bangs, this is what i use to gel them with.




INVISI'GEL. Long Lasting Hold Without Residue. An innovation from L'Oréal Laboratories, Invisi'Gel's guar gum formula is totally transparent, fluid and ultra light and glides instantly through your hair. Incredible! Invisi'Gel gives a long lasting hold with no clumping, no stickiness, no residue.

i really want the bangs to have a natural look, while being held in position but i dont have a clue what to use.

anyway, thats it, sorry for it being a bit long, plz help, thanks!