Hair so damaged I fear it'll never grow?

My hair has not grown in two years.

two years ago,it was bleached I straightened it everyday, no heat protectant
I then decided to go dark again a year ago, around half a year ago back to blonde
and 6 months ago went back dark to grow it out
Still straighetnign everyday but with a protection product

I noticed a couple of months ago my ends were breaking off at white dots, my hair was very dry etc
had a 1/2" trim but the problem seemed to be getting worse, the amount of hair breaking off was horrible
My hair has been stuk shoulder length for two years

So finally, I paid £60 for a cut at another salon telling me they'd cut the damage away so I could grow out my hair
I had 2" off and am using a strengthening shampoo however (been using it for around a month)also have been using it's a 10 miracle mask...there are still white dots everywhere and it is still breaking off

My hair is a horrible weird wavy mess, it's also shorter than I feel good with. It would be okay if I could straighten it but even more damage would just be urg. :/ I don't want to cut anymore off as I don't want to appear masculine but

Will I ever be able to grow my hair out?

Everything will be ok, just give your hair time to recover.
Meanwhile, forget the chemicals; massage the scalp with almond oil, it stimulates hair's growth; use gentle, sls free shampoo, better natural; eat a lot of fruits and vegetables; exercise; and in no time the problem will be resolved.