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    Posted: July 25 2003 at 6:44pm
he tried to get my brother to do it and i kicked him and since my cousin is the same hieght and age but hes a guy and hes a little stronger he like grabbed my arms and ripped some hair out.

"Just for fun".

im really pissed. (excuse my language.)
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Oh ouch. I've had hair ripped out of my skull, too. But not since I was a little kid. I'm tenderheaded now, I must have really been as a child.

How big is your bald spot? Or did he just rip out a little bit?
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its not so bad. i cant actually fnd where he ripped the hair out cause mines pretty thick and he got a chunk from the middle of my hair. i dont think he got too much but right after he did it he threw the hairs in the air and later came to me with a few and was like "maybe you can glue them back on AAHHA" i put my hair in a bun after that.
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Ouch!

Dana,

I once "tangled" with a weight-room machine which yanked out about a dozen strands at once (ouch!) but thankfully there was no noticeable bald spot. So I know how it feels, physically.

Your cousin is old enough to know not to pull so hard on your hair that it gets ripped out. I generally don't believe in "tattleing" (roughhousing is normal), but on this you may want to talk with your aunt or uncle. There is a line which should not be crossed when it comes to rough play and your cousin has crossed it. I hope he hasn't since tried this again.
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thanks dave. but I don't know his mother (his parents are divorced) and his fathers... well a big idiot.

he tried it like 5 more times but didnt get any hair and finally he tried it in the car and my grandmother told him she was going to chop his arms off if he ever did it again. it was somewhat amusing.

yeah he'll be 15 soon (hes only 8 months younger than me) but sometimes he acts like hes five. he throws food and sneaks into my room and takes stuff and things like that... I think it's a little weird.

i dont see him very often (even though his dad lives downt he street.) but now everytime i see him he keeps threatening to rip my hair out and grabbing for it nomatter what anyone says.

if i weren't so nice... I'd shave his entire body in his sleep and make him walk around totally bald. but thats too mean.
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Normally I'm totally against revenge and punishment but when it comes to something as personal as hair I'd say you have to make him feel something equivillent so he won't do it again and you can feel al ittle better about yourself.
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Benji

In your position, I would seriously tell your cousin (with a responsible person present) that you consider having hair ripped off your head a personal assault.

Warn him that you considered reporting him to the authorities but let it pass just once. Next time you will not hesitate.
Also, that if he threatens you again, you will treat it as harrasment and report that too.

If you mention that you have logged the first incident on this forum he might just get it through his thick skull to keep his hands off you.

Just my opinion.....best of luck whatever you do.
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