"Strawberry Blonde" ~ formula help ???

Hi
I am a new member seeking some opinions on this type of shade and how to get it.

I would go to my stylist who is not bad at color. I'm nervous because I know certain blondes and reds can be tricky to make perfect

Ok so my hair is not in "bad" condition. I did have her bleach it very lightly in September to have lighter brown hair. (Removed Demis of mahogany reddish browns)

I think my hair could handle a bleach processes again

OK , here is the color I like (from mid hair to ends mostly)
http://www.pinterest.com/pin/231091024601091784/

However, I'm unsure if it would look ok. My skin is quite pale wih some pink undertone but not too much. I'm very cool toned I'd say. I have some freckles on face but not enough to look real redhead

My eyes are pale blue-gray like hers (maybe a bit darker)
http://www.pinterest.com/pin/308989224403729334/

I think that shade of "strawberry blonde" is too ...golden ish and makes her look not so great ?

My natural color is a natural ash tone level 5 I believe

My stylist uses Paul Mitchell color lines.

1.) would I likely look dreadful in this color tone?
2.) is there a certain color shades I should mention to her? I would show her picture though

I'm sorry this post was so long. I can't find a lot on this shade. I read about a cool-tone strawberry blonde. But that makes no sense to me?

Any opinions or comments you may have??
Thanks.