Is the grass really greener?

Its so interesting reading about people with long hair who feel the pressure of the fashion world to cut their hair. But also, those with short hair feel the pressure of the fashion world (particularly now) to have long hair. Other pressures include how we are viewed by the opposite sex, the corporate world, our friends, etc. I think the best thing to do is to be happy with your own hairstyle and therefore you will exude confidence and of course then look YOUR best, whatever the current styles. Which of course means you will always have someone not liking the cut because you cannot please everyone all the time! So what, be yourself & then you'll be the happiest. Anyone agree?

Interesting...hmmm you do think long hairs receive more pressure. That is so wierd because I've always thought the greater pressures is to have long hair. But the reason I titled it "Grass is greener" is because I've been on both sides (long vs short) and I've felt both pressures. Now, it goes without saying that you can choose (and should) NOT to feel the pressure.
Perhaps it depends on your environment, do you think?
For example, the corporate world the pressures would lean towards short hair, some variation on the bob.(or simply pulled back of course)I actually worked at a place where the boss told another girl that she would look more professional if she cut her hair!
But, around other social groups I've seen Long hair be THE way to have your hair (since guys prefer long hair or at least thats the perception).
Then there's the everchanging fashion world, not just on the catwalks but look at all the newly Longer haired celebrities Jen Aniston, Faith Hill, previously Lauren Holly, Nancy O'Dell, etc. granted a lot of that is not their own (extensions) but, you see the trend)
Anyway...your not freakish!! At least not to me!