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    Posted: January 25 2001 at 3:07pm
Today on Maury he had a few guest. Six participants cut their hair.
Laura had long hair down to her knees and her husband really wanted it short so he cut it on the show.

LIsa had long hair but hubby begged her time to time to really cut it and he did on the show.

Jodie and her mom Sharon had very long hair. Jodie wouldn`t cut hers unless mom did to. Jodie cut her mother hair very short but when it came to her mother cutting her daughter hair she was crying so her Jodie`s dad had to cut her hair.

Another Sharon had waist length hair and her son wanted it short because he worried about his mom when she is on duty. She is a cop. So the son had the honor of cutting his mother`s hair.

MIke had very long hair and his daughter hated it. His hair was so thick that they had a tough time cutting it. Meanwhile his wife was crying and they asked her if they should continue.

All participants looks very nice with their new styles. I understand the children`t fears or whatever. I wonder about the husband if it didn`t play on a fantasy?
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Diane,

I don`t have seen the show and I don`t miss it, already it`s reading is something that makes me down. I think that some kind of hair cut fetishism is presented there, I can not proof it for this individuals but I know that something like this exist (read the messageboards on makeover sites). The odd thing is that never someone of this long haired humen will went out of this show with his/her long hair, so all participants know how it will end, independent of the feelings expressed there.

What is with the feelings of the women? If they had such a long hair they must have loved it over a time. To keep it beauty needs much effort and the outcoming is a really special thing that is appreciated by many people. What is with their feelings if they look at this events?

I don`t know how the women will feel beeing alone with themselves and looking into a mirror.

No, independent how they look afterwards, this thing goes out of my understanding of appearances in a civilized world, for me it`s a sign of decadence.

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Wow! I really woulda liked to see that show... hope they repeat it!!
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Dear Wolfgang:

The married younger women decided to cut their hair to please their husbands. Yes they were emotional at the time but they agreed to be on the show to cut their hair.`There were a few that express that they actually liked their new styles. One mother did it to set the mind of her child in peace. ONe man was did it to please his child. What is the difference between doing this or doing other things to please your mate?
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Dear Diane,

the different thing is that it happened in public as an entertainment event for the big TV majority. It seems to be of public interest to look at cuts of very long hair and the longhairs have to satisfy this requests.

It hurts me, why I appreciate the beauty of the very long hair. For many years I looked for it and only on very few days I had a chance to see it, and it maked me happy. This shows only present beautiful long hair to destroy it, I wonder if this is not a characteristic of our civilisation in general respective natural beauty.

The participants of the hair cuts satisfy the opinion that long hair has to be cut and is out of date, or have you ever heard any defends for it? I know individually from my own longer hair that it can give a lot of joy. For me it makes no sense that the participants of this show cut it off to please their relatives.

Why didn`t this one accept the individual preferences of their longhairs? A child needs parents who show how it is possible to manage the life and who give an example that life is worthfull, but they also have to respect the individuality of their parents. I think the only way that people can live together in a reasonable way is that they respect different preferences and do not try to change others after their own opinion. Otherwise the result has more to do with to be a slave of someone else.

I don`t understand that hair is handled in this shows without any respect, like it`s destiny is to be changed to garbage. If someone would work some years on a material creation maybe of the Empire State Building everyone would appreciate it and he never would get applause in a public show if he will destroy it there.

I think long hair if it is attached to a woman is not a product that can be sold although it has the potential of individual richness. So it contradicts the goals of capitalism. But also the communists have problems with it, as long hair gives too much individuality to their members.

So I don`t know if long hair has any future, but I belong to the people who really will miss it.

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Why do they never have shows like this on UK T.V.? Seriously, Wolfgang, I wouldn`t get too heavy about it. This is just entertainment for the masses and like most of daytime TV it is just designed to appeal to our baser instincts - see a woman with gorgeous hair, have someone hack it off. The thrill! Well, for some maybe. But don`t confuse it with real documentary about the nature of hair, it`s just cheap TV in the end.
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Phil, I don`t know if you understand what this hair can give. If not it is very easy to relativate this events to something that can be considered with distance. I love the beauty of very long hair and they can give nothing for me that can replace it, with this hair cuts they cut my feelings. I don`t think that any instinct that could appear should be cultivated or tolerated, at least I explain my opposition. Why should I have interest in the "real documentary about the nature of hair" if that what I like about it will be cut off?

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Dear Wolfgang:

I have the same passion as you do about long hair. The beauty of all its colors in the world and textures.

Sometimes I think that it really depends what we feel inside our hearts. If our hearts says that it is time to cut that longhair how can it be wrong. For me I hold the story about the poor man and his wife that he bought a comb for her hair but she cut her hair to get the money to buy him a gift so when they met to exchange their gifts they realize that love was the only powerful, most important thing in the world and to them and nothing else mattered. I think that many ways loves makes us do things like that story that might look strange to others that are not involved.
Sometimes I think it is also the matter of fearing change and I seriously don`t think that only one style looks right on us but a few others as well. There were so short hair styles that really looked nice on me. Fears hold on to a lot also. For example I happen to look great in red but very few women will actually wear red and feel very comfortable. I am one of those few women. The other day my mother and I went shopping for a lipstick and I asked for the reddest lipstick in the market. The salesclerk questioned me like I was asking for something out of this world, asking me if I ever wore red and menwhile I thought " oh come on it is only red" and she was so admize that red lipstick look very nice on me. Not becuase I didn`t have the right complexion for sure. Hey dark brown hair, dark brown eyes and pale skin and and full lips and yet she was surprise. lol
It makes me think that sometimes we need to walk on the edge a bit to look our best!!!!!!!!!!
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