new style, how do i get it?

also i would really like to know what products is used to create the various effects, thx

any quick tips? coz my hair at the min, SUCKS SO MUCH.

my hairs about 4 inches long and what i do at the min is wait till my hair is damp and then work some light gel into the hair, then a little wax.

ive tryed it without the wax and it looks sucky, im trying to get the effect in the last picture becuase thats closer to my hairs length.

problems are that when i do it, it goes all puffy until about a day after when its pretty much how i want it.

but the bangs i have to heavily gel down to get the effect i want, this gives the style i want but has little-no movement at all, + after a day or 2 it gets a little movement but loads of residue, i guess i could go to a sylist, but im only gonna do that as a last resort as one is a long way away from me, so any help on how to get the effect in the last picture i would appreaciate so much, thx!