To all men that happen to wish a long hair woman in thier life
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Topic: To all men that happen to wish a long hair woman in thier life
Posted By: Unregistered Guest
Subject: To all men that happen to wish a long hair woman in thier life
Date Posted: January 12 2000 at 2:49am
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Okay now that I got everyone attention I want to say something. If long hair is so important to you please tell your girlfriend etc before getting married. I am going to add some humor here. There is such a thing as a marriage contract then maybe there should be a long hair contract that says that the long hair woman doesn't cut her hair after marriage.I feel so sorry for all those men that email me wishing that their wives would have long hair and they are ignored wihen they ask. I feel very sorry for those men who are devastated because their long hair woman cut their hair after marriage.This concept that if someone loves you no matter what is a concept that only belongs in a dream land because when we treasure something about someone that we love and they change it , it only creates friction in the relationship.So many of you ask me why don't women understand your passion for long hair? I don't know. Maybe this posting will save some or maybe it won't. I wish that many women would understand . Stop being so silent and tell what is on your mind as women need to hear it.I get so frustrated at time on this topic because I often hear me me me thing and nothing about keeping someone happy.I bet I will have some negative messages. But I am asking long hair men to speak their mind as it seems that many women need to really understand this need.
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Posted By: Dave
Date Posted: January 12 2000 at 2:49am
I hear you Diane and I agree with what you have said.> I feel very sorry for those men who are devastated because their long hair> woman cut their hair after marriage.Some time ago on Hair Talk, someone spoke of a magazine article which statedthat some women will cut their long hair shortly after getting married.At best, doing this is somewhat disingenuous. How would she expect herhusband to feel? Pleased that she lured his interest under false pretenses?It speaks poorly of how we treat others we supposedly care for (love) whenwhat we do says "I don't care what you like." This attitude presumes thatour spouses will continue to love us with their full might no matter howbadly we treat them, just because "we took sacred vows on our wedding dayto 'love, honor and cherish' 'til death do us part." Let's be real.Making marked changes to one's self and one's behavior after a weddingis dishonest to the other. Is it any wonder where the expression "TheHoneymoon's Over" came from? Some people assume that just because they'vebagged a spouse, they can kick their feet up, relax, take it easy, andthey're spouse is going to love them just as much as they did when theywere being courted. These people are deluding themselves and are destinedfor divorce or unhappily married lives.Sorry to have soapboxed so vehemently.Dave
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David M Squires
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