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Please Help Before I Do Something Drastic!!??!!? Printed From: HairBoutique.com Category: African American Hair Forum Name: African American Hair Forum Description: Devoted to the special needs of African Americans. URL: https://talk.hairboutique.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=26720 Printed Date: July 25 2025 at 2:21pm Topic: Please Help Before I Do Something Drastic!!??!!? Posted By: Unregistered Guest Subject: Please Help Before I Do Something Drastic!!??!!? Date Posted: August 01 2002 at 9:17pm Hey Readers! I am LOSING my mind! ok heres how it started.... when i was 14, i decided to Dye my hair a GREAT Auburn - Red something...i wanted to get braids or something and i didnt have enough hair. so i cut it all off... but it looks great when its short and red...I love it... but my mom dosent... so i didnt re-dye until the next year. the same thing happened, but after dyeing, my hair got really dry... so i Cut it off again and now im 16,and my hair can wrap around my thumb half way- i guess an inch. so what i really wanna do is grow it out to about maybe 3inches and put some curls in it(texturizer) and then some highlights... but for now i am planning on getting a texturizer and making it wavy while it grows ( im getting the Doo- Gro tomorrow). but my hair is really frizzy and curly now (it looks like dark brown carpet and you can see no curl! ) ANY advice at ALL would be so Helpful , i would be ready to Pay someone to tell me what to do before i cut all of my hair off. p.s: im a guy with natural hair [its been through a lot] Thanks! Replies: