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Topic: offended
Posted By: BecauZ
Subject: offended
Date Posted: August 28 2004 at 7:19pm
is any1 else offend by the name of this forum like c'mon not all black people are african american theres many different types of blacks throughout the worlds some are brazilian (a lil rare), haitian, trini, african, jamaican *smh* at crackers who think the skin tone of black is confined to the US and Africa
I nominate this forum to be named.....
the black hair care forum
*still smh at crackers attempt to be politically correct yet failing to do so*
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Posted By: The_Airknight
Date Posted: August 29 2004 at 10:47am
Guess what? I wouldn't come here anymore if it had "black" in the title, because no one is "black." How about not even naming this forum based on an ethnicity, but rather just forums dedicated to certain degrees of curly hair.
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Posted By: Layla
Date Posted: August 29 2004 at 4:51pm
I guess because this is an American forum. That is the politically correct thing to say.
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Posted By: seasweet
Date Posted: September 02 2004 at 1:25pm
yeah they are being pc... hee hee. they can't never win with us... we really shouldn't expect them to understand what we want to be called. we should have our own forums if we want to get specific about tightness of coil patterns and degrees of fuzziness. that is stuff you would get by experience so you can't expect straight/wavy/curly haired folks to understand and define coily/fuzzy/nappy haired folks hair. lol...
i have no probs with the labels african american or black or negro or colored people. this is america and that's part of the package in living here.
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Posted By: Damier500
Date Posted: September 18 2004 at 3:43pm
some people are so petty! i dont see the signifigance of going through the civil rights movement over the name of a forum! African American is the best way to describe the forum unless of course you would like 'colored people hair' or 'negro hair'.. as if! we need to breathe and get over ourselves.. and for the record i aint in one bit offended
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Posted By: Supersugar
Date Posted: September 22 2004 at 1:00pm
I agree, it's called the African-American forum because by and large, most of the people who come here are in fact American...but maybe they put the name out specifically to tick you off...lol!
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Posted By: Unregistered Guest
Date Posted: September 24 2004 at 11:37am
I'm a little offended at the term "cracker". If you want people to be politically correct, start with not using terms like that.
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Posted By: Close2Clowns
Date Posted: October 07 2004 at 2:47pm
I think the category is african american hair because it is an american company. The person who said that black does not adequately describe anyone was right. Black means the absence of light. White means the absence of dark, also not a term describing a human. I do not know anyone like that. The other types of "black" people you mentioned are Africans also, just emigrated or displaced.
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Posted By: Close2Clowns
Date Posted: October 07 2004 at 2:49pm
Oh yeah, what is *SMH* ?
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Posted By: Twista
Date Posted: October 07 2004 at 3:11pm
ummm, no. Why would use the word "cracker" and expect to be answered proffessionally or even a response from the admins? How do you know the person who typed in "african american hair" wasn't black? You can ask a large amount of blacks on this forum no1 would really care about this, but you did. Which is alright cuz ur speakin yo mind and everyone has freedom of speech, but dayumm.
smh= shakin my head.
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btw= by the way afk= away from keyboard
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Posted By: mizdivine
Date Posted: October 08 2004 at 12:51pm
just a little side note... blacks (meaning people of african descent) in brazil is far from rare... brazil has one of the largest black populations in central/south america..... followed by cuba and panama. puerto rican(caribbean) and santo domingo (caribbean) also have some pure black populations plus a whole lot of folks of african descent.
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Posted By: BecauZ
Date Posted: October 10 2004 at 4:36pm
All im sayin is alot of people dont understand the black race african, carribean or american we are everywhere so i think its bull**** that were almost restricted to a name such as that. Its almost like everyday on this board where i see blacks say the stupidest **** about there own race like if ur african ur hair is thick or that all africans are dark skinned, all i wanna do is clear it up.
Now i kno were all of african diaspora but we arent all the same the only thing black from around the world share in common is the fact that they are black so it pisses me off when im referred to as an african american cause i dont know **** bout africa, C'mon really im a carribean black skinned man with ancestry from africa.
what i really mean is that black people are just like white people in the sense that there are diffrent types like white russians are diffrent from white italians and black americans are diffrent from black jamiacans
i kno this post doesnt make alot of sense but i was in a hurry when i wrote it
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Posted By: mizdivine
Date Posted: October 12 2004 at 8:32am
becau2, i get the jist of what you are saying......
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Posted By: AfroPuffs
Date Posted: October 23 2004 at 11:24am
Brazil has the highest populations of blacks after Africa, so it is not rare to find black peope in Brazil.
But I undestand you point. I for one, do not like the term African American and do not refer to myself as such. I mean what part of Africa is it that I'm from? You don't see whites calling themselves European Americas but rather they'll say they're, Irish, Italian, German, Polish, etc.
But since the majority of Blacks in the US and surrounding countries are descendents of slaves who were kidnapped from their homeland 400 years ago and stripped of their history, identity, religion, and language. Somebody, somewhere said:
"Here, let's throw these black folks a bone and call them African-American, we don't know from where in Africa they're from perse so we'll just reference the enitire continent as if it's one monolithic entity void of any unique cultures, customs or differences.. that'll make them happy"
And that they did.
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Posted By: leahkim
Date Posted: December 14 2004 at 3:31am
Gee, and people wonder why the KKK thinks we're nothing but a bunch of jungle bunnies...DAMN. I wonder why we can't all just get along and then posts like that answer my question. Same poster that called someone else a sellout. Why is it the African Americans are the only one that do that? You don't hear Italians going around calling each other wop or Jews callign each other Kike. We call each other the "n" word, and then get mad when non-african american people use it. That word did not come from us, it has never had a positive meaning. You'd beat a Caucasians ass for calling you that, but you think nothing of calling them crackers...Karma is a *****.
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Posted By: brown_eyed_girl
Date Posted: December 14 2004 at 11:00am
I don't get offended personally. I prefer to call myself black but, whatever. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.
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Posted By: Nymphe
Date Posted: December 14 2004 at 11:37am
Afropuffs wrote:
But since the majority of Blacks in the US and surrounding countries are descendents of slaves who were kidnapped from their homeland 400 years ago and stripped of their history, identity, religion, and language. Somebody, somewhere said:
"Here, let's throw these black folks a bone and call them African-American, we don't know from where in Africa they're from perse so we'll just reference the enitire continent as if it's one monolithic entity void of any unique cultures, customs or differences.. that'll make them happy"
And that they did.
| It sounds like you should do more research into slavery, among other things. Also, the term was created and first used by Jesse Jackson, so go complain to him.
Why is this stupid thread still open?
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Posted By: brown_eyed_girl
Date Posted: December 14 2004 at 11:59am
I guess it's still open because stupid people like me keep responding to it.
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Posted By: Unregistered Guest
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 8:56am
Personally I don't mind what they name this forum. As long as get good hair tips, I'm good.
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Posted By: AfroPuffs
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 9:55am
Nymphe wrote:
Afropuffs wrote:
But since the majority of Blacks in the US and surrounding countries are descendents of slaves who were kidnapped from their homeland 400 years ago and stripped of their history, identity, religion, and language. Somebody, somewhere said:
"Here, let's throw these black folks a bone and call them African-American, we don't know from where in Africa they're from perse so we'll just reference the enitire continent as if it's one monolithic entity void of any unique cultures, customs or differences.. that'll make them happy"
And that they did.
| It sounds like you should do more research into slavery, among other things. Also, the term was created and first used by Jesse Jackson, so go complain to him.
Why is this stupid thread still open?
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It sounds like you need to get that chip off your shoulder and ask yourself why you think a thread about blacks discussing their origins is stupid?
Blacks in the US rarely know where from in Africa their people hail. Why group everybody into one group like Africa doesn't have a gazillion different languages, cultures, customs and traditions.
White people from europe can be german, polish, french, italian, norwegian, etc. But when I suggest that blacks shouldn't be forced to be grouped together like we are all the same you suggest I research slavery? Which part should I research that will tell me from which country I should identify with?
In my opinion, telling blacks they should call themselves AA is like telling whites they should call themselve European Americans. If they ever tried to change the white race to European American like they've done the black race, whites would be up in arms saying, but I'm polish, I'm german, etc... Blacks in the US can't say nothing because we don't know. Are we Siberian, Ghanian, Kenyan, Egyptian, Ethopian, Sudanese? So why should we act like all these countries are the same? That's disrespectful to the continent of AFrica if you ask me
But If this thread is so stupid then you should stay on up out of it. I don't comment in stupid threads personally, I have better things to do.
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Posted By: brown_eyed_girl
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 10:22am
Good point, Puffs. I like the way you explained yourself.
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Posted By: cmesweet
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 11:20am
Posted By: Nymphe
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 1:29pm
AfroPuffs wrote:
Nymphe wrote:
Afropuffs wrote:
But since the majority of Blacks in the US and surrounding countries are descendents of slaves who were kidnapped from their homeland 400 years ago and stripped of their history, identity, religion, and language. Somebody, somewhere said:
"Here, let's throw these black folks a bone and call them African-American, we don't know from where in Africa they're from perse so we'll just reference the enitire continent as if it's one monolithic entity void of any unique cultures, customs or differences.. that'll make them happy"
And that they did.
| It sounds like you should do more research into slavery, among other things. Also, the term was created and first used by Jesse Jackson, so go complain to him.
Why is this stupid thread still open?
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It sounds like you need to get that chip off your shoulder and ask yourself why you think a thread about blacks discussing their origins is stupid?
Blacks in the US rarely know where from in Africa their people hail. Why group everybody into one group like Africa doesn't have a gazillion different languages, cultures, customs and traditions.
White people from europe can be german, polish, french, italian, norwegian, etc. But when I suggest that blacks shouldn't be forced to be grouped together like we are all the same you suggest I research slavery? Which part should I research that will tell me from which country I should identify with?
In my opinion, telling blacks they should call themselves AA is like telling whites they should call themselve European Americans. If they ever tried to change the white race to European American like they've done the black race, whites would be up in arms saying, but I'm polish, I'm german, etc... Blacks in the US can't say nothing because we don't know. Are we Siberian, Ghanian, Kenyan, Egyptian, Ethopian, Sudanese? So why should we act like all these countries are the same? That's disrespectful to the continent of AFrica if you ask me
But If this thread is so stupid then you should stay on up out of it. I don't comment in stupid threads personally, I have better things to do.
| Chip? LOL! Slavery was not as simple as you posted it to have been...that is why I said you should do more research and who can up with the term AA. What is wrong with that? What is all of the extra stuff?
This thread is stupid because it is pointless, old and in the wrong area for offtopic discussions...heck the OP is probably long gone by now. No one will be happy no matter whatever we personally call ourselves. I prefer the term black myself and I can easily find someone who hates the term. Pointless...
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Posted By: cmesweet
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 1:42pm
Hey Nymphe are you a member in Nappturality?
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Posted By: AfroPuffs
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 2:53pm
Nymphe wrote:
AfroPuffs wrote:
Nymphe wrote:
Afropuffs wrote:
But since the majority of Blacks in the US and surrounding countries are descendents of slaves who were kidnapped from their homeland 400 years ago and stripped of their history, identity, religion, and language. Somebody, somewhere said:
"Here, let's throw these black folks a bone and call them African-American, we don't know from where in Africa they're from perse so we'll just reference the enitire continent as if it's one monolithic entity void of any unique cultures, customs or differences.. that'll make them happy"
And that they did.
| It sounds like you should do more research into slavery, among other things. Also, the term was created and first used by Jesse Jackson, so go complain to him.
Why is this stupid thread still open?
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It sounds like you need to get that chip off your shoulder and ask yourself why you think a thread about blacks discussing their origins is stupid?
Blacks in the US rarely know where from in Africa their people hail. Why group everybody into one group like Africa doesn't have a gazillion different languages, cultures, customs and traditions.
White people from europe can be german, polish, french, italian, norwegian, etc. But when I suggest that blacks shouldn't be forced to be grouped together like we are all the same you suggest I research slavery? Which part should I research that will tell me from which country I should identify with?
In my opinion, telling blacks they should call themselves AA is like telling whites they should call themselve European Americans. If they ever tried to change the white race to European American like they've done the black race, whites would be up in arms saying, but I'm polish, I'm german, etc... Blacks in the US can't say nothing because we don't know. Are we Siberian, Ghanian, Kenyan, Egyptian, Ethopian, Sudanese? So why should we act like all these countries are the same? That's disrespectful to the continent of AFrica if you ask me
But If this thread is so stupid then you should stay on up out of it. I don't comment in stupid threads personally, I have better things to do.
| Chip? LOL! Slavery was not as simple as you posted it to have been...that is why I said you should do more research and who can up with the term AA. What is wrong with that? What is all of the extra stuff?
This thread is stupid because it is pointless, old and in the wrong area for offtopic discussions...heck the OP is probably long gone by now. No one will be happy no matter whatever we personally call ourselves. I prefer the term black myself and I can easily find someone who hates the term. Pointless...
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Why would assume that my few paragraphs summed up everything I knew about slavery? Of course slavery wasn't simple but I wasn't even talking about slavery I was talking about the term AA.
Who cares if the OP isn't around anymore, why does it offend you so much that others discuss the topic. The world doesn't revolve around you and if people want to discuss something they should be able to. You sound young and like you have a huge chip on your shoulder. That's mighty bold of you to tell a group of people to stop discussing something because you don't like the topic.
I see nothing wrong with not wanting my people to be grouped together like we're some monolithic entity. And I'll continue to discuss it with whoever wants to discuss it.
It's very close-minded of you to suggest that because there are two sides of a situation it should no longer be discussed.
You should probably stop visiting this thread if it bothers you so much and go find a topic that better suits you. And let those who want to discuss it, discuss it.
You sound very angry and bitter.
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Posted By: AfroPuffs
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 2:53pm
Posted By: Nymphe
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 4:07pm
AfroPuffs wrote:
Nymphe wrote:
AfroPuffs wrote:
Nymphe wrote:
Afropuffs wrote:
But since the majority of Blacks in the US and surrounding countries are descendents of slaves who were kidnapped from their homeland 400 years ago and stripped of their history, identity, religion, and language. Somebody, somewhere said:
"Here, let's throw these black folks a bone and call them African-American, we don't know from where in Africa they're from perse so we'll just reference the enitire continent as if it's one monolithic entity void of any unique cultures, customs or differences.. that'll make them happy"
And that they did.
| It sounds like you should do more research into slavery, among other things. Also, the term was created and first used by Jesse Jackson, so go complain to him.
Why is this stupid thread still open?
|
It sounds like you need to get that chip off your shoulder and ask yourself why you think a thread about blacks discussing their origins is stupid?
Blacks in the US rarely know where from in Africa their people hail. Why group everybody into one group like Africa doesn't have a gazillion different languages, cultures, customs and traditions.
White people from europe can be german, polish, french, italian, norwegian, etc. But when I suggest that blacks shouldn't be forced to be grouped together like we are all the same you suggest I research slavery? Which part should I research that will tell me from which country I should identify with?
In my opinion, telling blacks they should call themselves AA is like telling whites they should call themselve European Americans. If they ever tried to change the white race to European American like they've done the black race, whites would be up in arms saying, but I'm polish, I'm german, etc... Blacks in the US can't say nothing because we don't know. Are we Siberian, Ghanian, Kenyan, Egyptian, Ethopian, Sudanese? So why should we act like all these countries are the same? That's disrespectful to the continent of AFrica if you ask me
But If this thread is so stupid then you should stay on up out of it. I don't comment in stupid threads personally, I have better things to do.
| Chip? LOL! Slavery was not as simple as you posted it to have been...that is why I said you should do more research and who can up with the term AA. What is wrong with that? What is all of the extra stuff?
This thread is stupid because it is pointless, old and in the wrong area for offtopic discussions...heck the OP is probably long gone by now. No one will be happy no matter whatever we personally call ourselves. I prefer the term black myself and I can easily find someone who hates the term. Pointless...
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Why would assume that my few paragraphs summed up everything I knew about slavery? Of course slavery wasn't simple but I wasn't even talking about slavery I was talking about the term AA.
Who cares if the OP isn't around anymore, why does it offend you so much that others discuss the topic. The world doesn't revolve around you and if people want to discuss something they should be able to. You sound young and like you have a huge chip on your shoulder. That's mighty bold of you to tell a group of people to stop discussing something because you don't like the topic.
I see nothing wrong with not wanting my people to be grouped together like we're some monolithic entity. And I'll continue to discuss it with whoever wants to discuss it.
It's very close-minded of you to suggest that because there are two sides of a situation it should no longer be discussed.
You should probably stop visiting this thread if it bothers you so much and go find a topic that better suits you. And let those who want to discuss it, discuss it.
You sound very angry and bitter.
| What? Why would I be angry or bitter over this? Good grief... 
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Posted By: Nymphe
Date Posted: December 15 2004 at 4:10pm
cmesweet wrote:
Hey Nymphe are you a member in Nappturality?
| Yup yup, and various other boards around the net trying to glean as much info as I can and help when I can. 
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