well use some bright colours of eye shadow

use three tones of the same colour use the middle one to over all over ur eye lid and the bottom one and the on the v end of ur eye lid use the darker tone and then highligt ur eyebrows with the shiny tone some silver or white eyeshadow and use the eyeliner to line only the outter half of ur eyelid and line the inner lines and some heavy mascara and use some concealer under ur eyes to clear out any blackness u have there...

Wild- Kitty,  I agree with what you said, but I just wanted to say that on fair skinned people, bright colours can sometimes make eyes look smaller, particularly if thicker in texture and a unnatural tone, like pink, green, blue or purple.  If thinly applied it can absolutely have the effect you said, but if it gets heavy it can overwhelm them.

I would actually not go with bright colours to make one's eyes appear larger unless you're used to experimenting with them.  Natural tones with a great mascara (I often apply a couple fake lashes too, the individual ones can give a great elongating/enlarging effect) or going for the smoky eye/darkly lined and shadowed eyes work best.