omg gwen stefani has naturally dark brown hair?no way??

that gives me hope.

my hair is dark too about 4 or 6 and im thinking

of getting it bleachedbut i wouild never

do it at home.

i think it could be far too dangerous and likely to trun orange.

also home colourants are normaly so harsh. i would b too

scared that all myhairwould break off

I have told my stylist exactly what I wanted and everytime she was like ok cool we can do that.And everytime it came out basically the same.Plus(now that i'm on to her) I specifically remember her being like wow looks really good when she would take off the foils.And someone always seemed to manage to stand nearby enough to comment too.Plus When she would be putting the finishing touches on me all the other stylists would be like it looks so good and pretend like it was some huge transformation.Of course I bought into it.I paid alot of money and got really taken.She said she didnt want to do the whole head for fear of ruining my hair.Which is why I was willing to cut my hair short to get it.But she said that wouldnt be enough.My hair isnt any worse off with the highlights.I have to use alot of conditioner but I did that anyway.Plus I get trims every four weeks.So Its not like I dont take care of my hair.I'm just really mad I let her talk me into the highlights.Especially when I have paid twice as much for full foil highlights every single time and only gotten crown highlights.Believe me its not a matter of communication.I made It very clear what I wanted.

 is it bleach she uses in the higlights>

Kirsty:yeah she uses bleach.The first two times I went it took like an hour.But the last two times It only took like 10-15 minutes to process.?

missy66:I do love blonde hair.This may sound weird but I like dark roots.Not like platinum or white blonde against black roots.I've seen that and it looks like little black bugs,lol.But like medium and darker shades.I think it can look good,lol.Like shakira before she lets them out too much.I think the four inches of roots was pretty excessive.

I will more and likely just go natural.Other people loved my dark hair.But It never really grew on me.I hate my hair to look stripey though.I think highlights are great.But for myself I wanted a dark blonde to light brown base with light highlights on top to lighten without going extreme.Thats exactly what I asked for the first visit. But not even close to what i got.I know it would have cost alot of money but that was never an issue.The cost to touch up my roots is still slot cheaper than what I've been paying per appointment.But anyway I'm going to stop whining now,lol.

thats definitely a good idea.I agree highlights over a darker base looks much better.Thats exactly what i asked for the first appointment.A dark blonde base with light highlights.Syren:Thats not the problem.This salon actually carries the latest products and they're stylists are up to date on all the newest techniques.It was more a matter of her just getting more money.Which she did.Its ok though Maybe it will give me the incentive to quit letting people  take advantage of me.Its hard for me to say no.Even if I'm paying someone  for a service its hard for me to speak up.Like when she said she wouldnt do what I wanted I would have never been able to be like I'll just go to someone else.I would been afraid of making her angry.Its kind of embarrassing how easy going I am..Money is not an issue but I think I like the idea of doing it myself.At least If I mess it up I only have myself to blame.If a stylist messed up all I would do is probably cry and let her convince me it was my fault.I'm a huge pushover.It wouldnt be the first time. But I'm getting better.