Good idea.

Rence119 wrote: This Forum is starting to lose excitement many people have left

To be honest with everyone, I want to talk about things that affect the African American community. The problem I have is that some people can't handle the truth about our people. They want to make jokes, play games, act like a child, try to be who they are not, and basicly stick their heads in the sand like nothing is going on. I make post about African American culture and I can't even get more than three of four words out of some of the members. Some can't relate because they are not who they say they are. MEN know MEN.

Frankly, I mention topics that I know MEN respond too , but I have a hard time getting MEN to talk. The women respond with a passion, but the "MEN" respond as if they don't want to touch the subject. I get attacked by a person who is confused about who they are, and none of the "MEN" on the site say anything in my defence, but claim to be an African American/Black MAN. Now how do you think this looks to all the WHITE people who already think we are a bunch of monkeys that are all on the DL? That's Right! Where are the REAL MEN, not the shape shifters, but the REAL BROTHERS? I know damn well all the people on this site is not confused and trying to balance both sides of the spectrum.

Games, Games, and more games. If you are looking for entertainment, go to another site. Because this MODERATOR is not playing games for your entertainment. I'm trying to teach hear and maybe learn somethings myself. I have to admit, I've learned more about some people on this site. I've also learn "who" likes waves too. There are some sick people out there that really don't care about YOUNG BLACK MEN. They want to exploit, emasculate (take away manhood), "turn out", violate, and make light of the murderous life threaten conditions of African American MEN.

My people are in trouble and all I can get is people who want to pass as a MAN but, nobody willing to step up and be a REAL MAN, live as a REAL MAN. But want to claim white people are holding us back. No, we are hold us back by being foolish and confused about our manhood.  You can't speak for a REAL MAN if you are not REAL with yourself and others. REAL recognize REAL. I see FAKE. I'm getting rid of the FAKE, watch and see. You can come back under a different names, but you can't hide FAKE. It's something that GOD and NATURE will not hide. I need some brothers who are willing to have a real conversation about AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN, not someone that plays both sides trying to be everybodies friend.  A leader can't be everyones friend. There will be some FAKE people who claim to be real.

This is boring because it's like talking to a computer and not a real MAN.  God has given me a great gift and everybody that REALlY knows me will tell you the same.  But because some people refuse to talk about the DESTRUCTION of the Black Family, we have to sit here reading post by people who really don't have any business call thereselve MEN. REAL MEN stand up and talk about what affects MEN! The is Mens 360 Waves.

Do any of you realize that we represent African American MEN and none of you are stepping up to take on any of the issues that I discussed.

Now I will admit that I might have said some things that you do not agree with, but you have to question YOUR MORALS AND VALUES. What is important to you? Looking like a man or being a MAN?

So I ask, Where are the REAL MEN?

Because I want to talk to REAL MEN, not FAKE MEN. This is a MENS website. Child preditors are not welcome here. Preditors of MEN are not welcome here. Women who think that they are a MAN are not welcome to speak up as a MAN. You are not a MAN. You are confused. If you think this is a game forget it. I am a REAL AFrican American MAN. Respect it or leave it. GO!  

Dig it. I know it's boring here because some people can't talk about THE DESTRUCTION OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN FAMILY.

You know why it's this way LIL J, because they are helping to DESTROY IT and don't want to talk about it. They hide and they pretend to be someone they are not. They hide under FAKE names and Fake pretense hoping one of the young highschool boys will befreind them. They want to hurt young Black MEN. That's Right, it's very true. And they are right here on this site getting there ROCKS off over young highschool boys. They pretend to be a young kid theirselves so they can fit in but when you talk about politics and family they can't deal with it because they are OUT CAST THEMSELVES.  Well I welcome young men who are willing to look at who they are and who they would like to be. I welcome conversation with people who want to know why all these bad things are happening in the Balck community. But that's too Boring for some people who think it's cool pretending to be what they are not. They think it's cool to speak for REAL MEN and shoot down anybody that calls them on it. FAKE IS FAKE. Young MEN protect yourself from these preditors claiming to be REAL MEN. Perversion is all over the place and I plan on running it away from here.

big mike thats real talk man

I feel all of you. I had to get that off my chest because it's our duty to educate each other. Oh I support at HB to educate the about African History and Culture. Rence 119 I see ya man. Thank you for standing strong. LiL "Already" J, thanks man.

I know we can't talk about waves all the time that's why I suggest we talk about our African Culture. Anybody is welcome to post a topic related to African Culture, I just ask that you check with me so I won't have to delete your hard work. Just run it by me before you post it. You are welcom to post up and coming African American Events. Just check with me first. I need help with some of the African American related topics anyway. My 360VETS are here and I would like them to come with some info on African American Culture. This would help to talk about other things outside of Waves. We need to address what's going on in our culture and community, all the men are dieing and I know I'm not the only person watching Black men die out here. 

baller05 wrote: wha were u expecting...no stop 360 waves talk?? ...dont go on the forum everyday

360spinna wrote: TAKE A WEEK OR 2 OFF AND THEN COMEBACK? THAT'S WHAT I'M ABOUT TO DO.

Talking about Waves everyday can be boring, believe me I know.  BIGGMike - Posts: 1161

Im new here but damm the site is so repetative, the same questions

How do i get waves?

Is it allright to get a hair cut?

Are my waves tight?

How many brushes do i need

What direction should i brush my hair

How long should i brush for?

The creator of this forum needs to advertise. or make the forum a chat room, which would create more flow.or the site needs to be revamped

Bike mike Loooosen up, you so uptight about everthing...this aint the fbi ..RUN IT BUY YOU??????

I am so sorry. I wil never question mike again.

Thats how we Kiss @@S around here.

 yup way cool

phlysprts4lfe wrote: Bike mike Loooosen up, you so uptight about everthing...this aint the fbi ..RUN IT BUY YOU??????

Yea it's cool man, I just have to report to the owners of Hairboutique.com so if they have a problem with a post then I will have a problem witht the post. I know what they don't want on the site. I'm just doing my job phlysprts4lfe. I'm here for fun, it's my job.

I'm cool man, you have to get to know me. I have to admit I am a little stricked sometimes. I'm a conservative person (I'm not a youngsta) what can I say. I mean well in my actions and words.

yea u can do 1 thing Lil J.

YOU CAN STOP.

oh i feel u pimp

Why did u ban Lil J

yo biggmike why did baller05 get banned