U guys I am so sorry, I was well out of order with the things I said, I am going through a really messy break-up at the moment and I am feeling thouroughly sorry for myself.  I have been a total bitch to everyone for the past few weeks and I am now doing my rounds to appologise, I love this boared and find u girls very informative...please ignore my, is it just me or?..post.

Sorry again

Hugs x

no worries *hugs* we've all been there.

glad to have you back :)

No sweat! I understand the break up thing very well....I'm going through a divorce that was not my idea and hit me like a frieght train.

It's so hard. Things will get better.

Oh girls I feel for you...I been there too quite recently. My world came crumblin' down back in the spring when mine dumped me and was he very cruel and ugly....nifty, I know the freight train feeling.

SPP...ditto what nifty says, things will get better.

Hang in there baby!

Glad your back! No apologizes necessary. Breakups suck and leave you feeling vulnerable. (well I do anyways)

My husband and I split a few months ago and it felt like going through a death. None of my best girlfriends were around for me (too busy) after I had been there for all their breakups over and over. I realized some people are not emotionally available for you. Now my husband and I are getting back together. I hope everything works out for you, it must be tough right now for you. Focusing on hair also helps!

You can't beat "men talk" with women, that's why I love doing extensions so much as you can always have a good moan with a stranger about a man LOL.

Petal - I totally feel for you chick, there are only men who came make us feel so sh*tty.  You feel so low that you think noone is bothered about you and everything seems like the end of the world.  Things can only get better, especially looking as good as you do, you'll find someone in no time and as I say "onto bigger and better" !!!!

SPP-

I think we have all been there before, so don't worry!  It gets better!

Many men in my life have disappointed me (expect my current husband is pretty good for the most part), that's why I prefer the company of my dogs and donkeys!

Hair has been a great distraction! Once I accepted that divorce was emminent, I felt like I needed a major change and since my hair was so short, the change had to be make it long. That's what brought me here...researching extentions. I wanted a new look to go with my new life. Nothing like beautiful hair to make a woman feel good. And maybe a cosmopolitan martini and a pedicure.

no harm no foul- give yourself a hug.

lov ya

If we statistically represent the population as a whole...over 1/2 of us can relate to you on the break-up and all of us can relate on feelin' bitchy and venting.  Like nifty girl I wanted a change.  It was between hair and boobs and I opted for the extensions.   It makes me feel good and I can do more with it than fake boobies

Hang in there...it only gets better!

delin wrote:  It makes me feel good and I can do more with it than fake boobies

heh, my fake bewbies pay for my fake hair

{{{{{{{hugs SPP}}}}}}  You also have to realize it is summer and that means more and more are outside and not sitting and typing plus a lot of people go on vacation. 

Kalika - I had to read your response a few times - call it mommy brain but when I read the word Bewbies I thought you put extensions in your PUBIC area - and I was thinking  - wow, what they can't do these days - hehehehe

count me in on the sh$#W# man....but long hair is helping me get the nerve to say take a hike you ___________!! being a mom and married to a jerk can really make you feel like sh##.  - but there is ALWAYS a silver lining...you just have to find it in the fog!!!

octavia

Aw thank u guys......B**TARD men.  Sorry to hear about all the other break-ups that are going on, luckily we weren't married so that makes things a lil' easier.  Anyway we are all strong independant women...throw ur hands up with me.....lol.

Kisses x

No harm No foul

ShockinPinkPetals wrote: U guys I am so sorry, I was well out of order with the things I said, I am going through a really messy break-up at the moment and I am feeling thouroughly sorry for myself.  I have been a total bitch to everyone for the past few weeks and I am now doing my rounds to appologise, I love this boared and find u girls very informative...please ignore my, is it just me or?..post. Sorry again Hugs x

Men....sheesh...so sorry to hear about this.

The great thing about this place is that everyone is so supportive and understanding.

Hope things get better for ya soon.

I've been away for as few days but i'm guessing you are the person who sent the nasty message to me and amanda and amm? (if not enlighten me someone!)

Anyyyway...

I broke up with boyfriend of 4 years 2 months ago.. Its hard, but there was a reason we broke up. and i make sure i dont forget the reason, and it gets much easier. 

Also, just think, now your free to seduce arousing men ;)

oh ok, well

i forgive you anyway!