I hear you. It's about 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 females to each Black male. And they watch everything you do and listen to everything you say. I deal with it too. Sometime they get on your nerves too. They see an Alpha Male and loose their mind. I have one more class to take next semester and I'm walking out shinning. Keep it cool with them females they can distract you from what's the most important thing, a degree. Have fun though because you will look back when your older it will be one of the best times in your life.

Do it and do them too until it hurts cause that's how it is. I bet you have to fight the females off with a big stick. The bigger stick, the more you have to fight them off. It seems like the more you push them away, the more they come to you. They can get real crazy sometimes too. 

Just don't forget 360Waves man. Don't be a stranger. Tell some of your boys about us too. Come back and teach us what you have learned.

The other side of the Coin!

Don't forget about they "HATE ON YOU" when you don't want them. I "feel" threatened, I "feel" in danger, I "feel" insulted. When he look at me, I "feel" nervous. I feel, I feel, I feel, I feel, I feel.  That's what over half of them are about. Feelings is all they think about, besides your money and theirs.

You can get in REAL BIG TROUBLE dealing with females too much in college or at work. You can get kick out of school if a few or one of them decided to lie on you or start talking about "feeling" to the dean, dorm staff, teachers, or anybody else on campus. Don't forget about false rape charges! Don't forget your gender or race young men, because they will discriminate against you real quick! You see college is now dominated by White female feminist who hate on MEN and don't care about black males at all, unless you are gay. You will have over came all the problems of family and the "HOOD" just to get kicked out of college over foolishness with a female. Please understand BiggMike is older than all you young cats on this site, I know first hand. I've seen it happen over and over again at the University I'm atteneding and at OSU. And Black and White males sit in the back or the front to avoid the women. They distract you from your studies and then get you kick out or get pregnant.  Please believe it! It's true. You better ask somebody. It's a trip how things are when you get at the senior level and the hating really starts. You can't even voice your opinion on anything if they "feel" theatened. Understand this and take is seriousely. I'm tring to help my young brothers to live and survive in this place they call America in the 2005.  

They all sound like good schools. Check the graduation rate of Black males before you make you mind up. also check the male to female ratio too. It does make a difference because of politics and idfficulty fitting in. I know because I grew up in a majority black and hispanic poor side of town. When I earned a football scholarship and graduated with honors, I chose to got Oklahoma State where discrimination against minorities is very high. I didn't check for all of this and had a hard time there because of it.

I was not use to dealing with rich white people who did not grow up around minorities. It was hard to adjust to it coming for the "hood". This is called culture shock. Culture shock happens when you are not use to being outside of your own culture. I'm not saying that you should go to Black University. I'm just saying, check out what you are getting yourself into. It will pay off for you in the long run. Please believe me, I know. I could have save myself some from the problem I had in Oklahoma. It may be a few people on the site from OK who can tell about the race problems they have down there and how they treat black people and minorities. Think about it! 

There many good things in a diverse university so I'm not trying to talk all negative about college. I'm just trying to give you a heads up about what to expected. Remember what the commercial on TV says, "This will be one of the most important choices you make in life"!  So do it right the first itme.

I learned so much about different cultures and different classes of people. There are rich people, poor people, People from different countries and states. This will help you in the work world and in your personal life. It will teach to understand and respect all cultures. You may even learn how to respect your own culture. Right now I do business and sell products to people all over the world. I'm very successful in my sells/customer support position. Remember me telling you I got a promotion and a salary raise. This is because I went to college and understand many cultures that other people in my office don't understand.

My boss, who's the owner of HB tells me all the time that I'm the best at what I do in the whole company. This is why I say go to college, forget that ghetto stuff and focus on bettering yourself. It's paying off for me. Brick home, land, nice truck (that's paid for with 22's on it ), plus a very "smart" and "fine" woman to help me deal with life. I'm not bragging, just trying to tell you the benifits of college.