im upset girls @ college :-(
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Topic: im upset girls @ college :-(
Posted By: kirstyx1888xmac
Subject: im upset girls @ college :-(
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 11:47am
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and these girls started being nasty 2 me, heard them saying ohh nutt she has extensions in her hair u can totally tell,shes a slxx she totally loves herself blah blah blah
it was my first proper diy install i thought i did ok.girls can be so mean |
i was out last night ive just started my course
i didnt know what to say back.. i never did anything to them before and theyr just being nasty 4 no reason. im thinking about taking my hair out but tis a shame cos i just put them in. Replies:
Posted By: shann2525
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 11:59am
well, honey- f*#k um. You are probably cuter and younger and they are just bitter, so I say F*#k um. Some girls feel so sh*tty about themselves the only way they can feel better is to talk trash about other people..you should just pitty them. Don't even give it another thought. 
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Posted By: kateadreena
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 12:10pm
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i thought you'd have learnt by now the ONLY TIME you will get insulted by groups of girls is because they are insecure, and nasty, and by putting ither people down it makes them feel better.
i learnt that through years of being bullied for being fat and gly, and now i'm a model |
Posted By: kirstyx1888xmac
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 12:14pm
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(well done you!) ------------- |
Posted By: sherrie215
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 12:22pm
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unfortunately thats the way alot of girls that age are....and it even continues with older women...women are just like that! If it wasnt your hair that they were ragging about it would be something else...these are the types that will always find something to say. Just hang in there....keep your extensions, before you know it a few of these girls will probably be approaching you and asking where they can get hair extensions or how to do it! Ive had that happen, of the women that do know that I have extensions, sometimes Ive heard them 'criticise'. But then down the road these are usually the same ones that eventually come to me to ask how to get them, where to get them, how much they cost...etc! |
Posted By: niftygirl
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 12:28pm
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Oh Honey, don't take them out! I think they're beautiful and you are beautiful, like a china doll. There will always be nasty people out there. It doesn't matter what you do or don't do. I dropped off my son at his Christian school Thursday with short ugly hair and picked him up with long flowing 18" hair. My "mom" friends all swarmed me ooo-ing and ahhh-ing but I noticed a few raised eyebrows and strange expressions like "what the heck did she do and why?" |
Posted By: AmethystKat
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 1:03pm
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daaaaamn that girl would have gotten a bottle broken over her head if she
said that to me. she was probably just crabby because her herpes was flaring up. |
Posted By: Gina E
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 1:05pm
Words of Wisdom right there!!! That "breed" of Women/girls are generally catty...It's either your clothes, your breasts are too small or they're fake, and my personal favorite...when all else fails...they play the slut card! Let that roll on off! *** Own your style...Don't imitate it!*** |
sherrie215 wrote:Posted By: Amanda8Beechwoo
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 1:07pm
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Don't you dare take that hair out chick, you look beautiful and they're just jealous bitches! Ignoring them will make them go away, taking your hair out will make them worse I assure you xx ------------- [URL=http://www.hairextensionsbyamanda.co.uk]www.hairextensionsbyamanda.co.uk[/URL] |
Posted By: Scotchyroo
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 1:37pm
| Sweetheart, think of it this way. When people are threatened or insecure, they say dumb mailto:s@#t - s@#t . Usually they think about it later and are sorry. It's just a fact, especially young people who don't know themselves yet. You just be yourself |
Posted By: cherrycoke
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 2:49pm
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Yes, don't you take them out. They obviously look good or they wouldn't be saying anything about them. Catty girls only get catty when they are jealous and threatened. If it was ugly, they wouldn't have a word to say because they would be too busy ripping on someone else with better hair, better body, better car than them. Once Delta Delta Delta Dorka finds out you put those in yourself, they will all be kissing your butt trying to get you to do their extensions. |
Posted By: femmemuscle
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 3:08pm
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this is the difference between females and women - and i mean "real" women..what is a woman anyway? a woman is MATURE or ADULT female.. a female is learning what maturity is..she is growing into her womanhood..mentally, physically, and emotionally...some females, though they have grown physically (the boobs, reproductive organs, hormones, etc.), never ever get to that point in life where the mental, or the emotional maturity has kicked in...they may be 30, 40, sometimes 50 years old - and still don't get it.... the ones who are strong, have a good sense of self, respect, toughness, gentleness, class, acknowledges others accomplishments, basically has grown into her maturity, is a woman..she would be the one who leads by example.. if those young ladies cannot show maturity, then you must be the one to rise above them..it is not worth worrying about being their friend. if they become really friendly, something is amiss..who wants to be friends with people like that anyway?...the most important goal at this point is getting through your classes...i've had some hard bumps in life when it comes to trying to be popular, and wanting to be "liked"... having had many, many jobs,and careers in my less than 50 years..i was paid for my services...the only job i was never paid for, was trying to please everyone, or being liked... Hell, i've seen guys make fun of women with extensions...they are "guys" or "males"...they have a long way to go before they become men...
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Posted By: Kalika
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 3:22pm
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Shoot, I cant tell you how often Ive gotten snarky remarks regarding extensions (sometimes I WANT them to look fake), or my boobs (implants), nails, makeup, clothes, whatever have you. I usually just smile and say "At least I can afford it" and walk off. |
Posted By: gsmilie
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 3:46pm
You go girl!!
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Posted By: gsmilie
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 3:46pm
| Kristy-- Just let it roll off your back, your hair looks great!! |
Posted By: aseya
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 3:52pm
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Oh sweetie! I spent two years in therapy and battled bulimia during
highschool trying to deal with what other girls said about me. When I
wa heavier no one noticed me and then suddenly when I lost all that
weight everyone went around talking about how I was a skank and
stuff. I'm just now learning to not listen to what other say about me. Those girls WERE jealous. They probably either couldn't figure out how your hair looks so great and got so long or they think that you have lots of money cuz you can afford such great extensions. Also I remmeber a girlfriend of mine was being teased about her nose by two girls in the library at her uni. Turns out one of their friends tried to hook up with my friend's boyfriend before they dated. I guess they were just bitter. Women are mean to each other sometimes. I work in the beauty industry and the things I've seen! And I'm only 21! I've had women step on my feet and push me out of the way and just be all out rude to me. I think they just get threatened and so they have to find something wrong with you to prove that they are better than you. And when you think about it, there are more women than men on the planet. So maybe they just make up stuff to shrink your self esteem so that you won't leave the house and they won't have to compete with you (although judging from your photos and posts, there is no competition:) ) . Lazy bitches! *Big hug* Feel better!!! |
Posted By: jodie
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 4:05pm
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ahh babe !! dont take any notice, they're just jealous arseholes, your hair is fab just keep ya chin up and they'll get sick. They'll be the ones that end up disliked on the course. What are you doing at college by the way?? ------------- *jodie* X |
Posted By: LuckieDuckies
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 5:56pm
| if your extensions really did look bad, they wouldnt have said anything to your face. instead they wouldve snickered at you in glee behind your back with the thought that you didnt know you looked like sh*t... saying something means their jealous : ) and hang in there, yes that happens with women of all ages but im 22 now and can say i haven't seen it as much as when i was 17-18. your a beautiful girl dont let them get you down |
Posted By: Scotchyroo
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 7:10pm
| Yeah, Sugar, you give them hell, BE HOTTER!!! college girls always think they have to be DOWDY to be serious students and that's mailto:B@llsh*t - B@llsh*t . Love your hair. |
Posted By: Kimbearly
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 11:11pm
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{{{{Hugs}}}}}
I love your hair and you are very pretty. Don't you dare take out
your hair because that is what these girls want. Next time you
hear something like this call them on it. Maybe they think you
are embarrassed to have hair extensions. If you play it off like
so what, I do -or you could say, "I just overheard you and yes I do
wear hair extensions. Would you like me to show you how to do
your hair because it is so much fun." Come off as being sweet and
confident and you can't loose.
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Posted By: Kimberly D
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 11:47pm
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I agree...... "KILL 'EM WITH KINDNESS!"
... or is it confidence?... or a 2x4  ....? Ah, I can never remember.
Trial and error, I say, until you get it right. 
Regardless, don't give in! It's true, the only reason they're picking on you is they're threatened cuz when they see you, they feel they don't measure up, so they try to chop you down. Don't let them! ------------- |
Posted By: CyberMane
Date Posted: September 18 2005 at 11:51pm
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Posted By: Longhairdreams
Date Posted: September 19 2005 at 12:28am
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They probably noticed guys staring at you,or giving you extra attention cause of your new gorgeous hair.As soon as girls notice someone else getting all the guys attention the claws come out.It really just boils down to jealousy.And they're probably jealous that they're too poor from college and not as hair savvy as you to have their own extensions. ------------- 
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Posted By: aimee
Date Posted: September 19 2005 at 2:14am
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dont take them out theyre gorgeous dont listen to these girls theyre just jealous sometimes i see girls too and i know that they have extensions not because theyre installed badly because the hair looks so beautiful |
Posted By: kirstyx1888xmac
Date Posted: September 19 2005 at 9:31am
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aww thanks for your kind words made me feel much better. ye i think i need 2 just not be embaressed if people know iv extensions as you say lods of girls wear other fake stuff like boobs n nails. im going to keep them in and finish my install cos they cost me $$ and i spent some hard work and i like them and my mum says it looks lovely and i like it, so im not going to be bullied. and your right if i take them out they will think they have won. theyr just picking on me cos i look different. i dont want to take them out and be the same as them. and even if its not perfect... so what im just having fun..
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Posted By: Amanda8Beechwoo
Date Posted: September 19 2005 at 10:30am
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That is the perfect attitude to take chick, just make sure you stick to it x ------------- [URL=http://www.hairextensionsbyamanda.co.uk]www.hairextensionsbyamanda.co.uk[/URL] |
Posted By: niftygirl
Date Posted: September 19 2005 at 7:44pm
Bravo!!  Go forth woman and roar!!!
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Posted By: leia1979
Date Posted: September 19 2005 at 9:45pm
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Kirsty, the important thing is whether or not you
like your extensions. It doesn't matter what anyone else
things. I know it's easier to say that than to live it.
However, when I was in college, I went to a rather conservative school,
and I had pink hair, purple hair, cherry red hair, you name it!
No one else did, and to them, I was so weird. But I liked my hair
(and wish I could still have it). Frankly, I think they were
jealous because I felt that it was okay to be different and not be
another little product of the cookie cutter. Dare to be different, chica! You're just that much cooler! |
Posted By: kirstyx1888xmac
Date Posted: September 20 2005 at 7:57am
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that is the truest thing. when i walked in2 college 2day i cud see the girls staring at me i thougt f*** em i like my hair i know it looks good theyr just trying to make me feel sh**. i like my hair and i dont care if they think it looks silly or makes me look like a barbie or looks fake or whatever i think it looks good so thats whats importnat. they should just accept me for me. and if thyer going to be so shallow i dont want to be their friend anyway. shouldnt have to look the same as every1else to fit in. my mum was laughing at me im doing law tis like legally blonde ------------- |