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Topic: O/T- need your prayers please
Posted By: metalgirl
Subject: O/T- need your prayers please
Date Posted: October 24 2005 at 10:52pm

Hi guys,

I would like to ask for your prayers to help me through a very tragic situation, that unfortunately will be a life long struggle for me.

I was diagnosed this week with Multiple Sclerosis (MS), which is an incurable, degenerative disease of the central nervous system.   It doesn't  kill you, but over time  your nerve cells are so damaged that you can end up in a wheelchair, blind, incontinent, paralysed, and mentally confused or forgetful.  Many people with this can no longer work and must go on disability.

I can't believe this is happening to me.  I have always been so healthy and physically fit.  My whole life has changed for the worse, in just the last few weeks.  I'm scared, as this disease is very unpredictable, and is different from one person to the next.

My main problems right now is numbness in my legs and left hand.  Did an hair extension install today with a left hand I could barely feel.  My legs are also sore and I feel my balance is a little off.

Anyway, I would like to ask for prayers or advice from anyone who knows about or has this aweful disease.

Lisa



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Posted By: LuckieDuckies
Date Posted: October 24 2005 at 11:46pm
im so sorry : ( 


Posted By: amm
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 12:04am
Lisa,

This is unsettling news and I am so very sorry you received this diagnosis. Do not hesitate to get a 2nd and 3rd opinion.

I am not being dismissive by any means but I personally would follow up with some chiropractic sessions for treatment of possible pinched nerves. In this line of work with all the standing and the intricate work being done by the hands and fingers, it’s a possible cause for the tingling/numbess.

May I ask if you’ve had the testing done with the Ishihara color chart? One of the most definitive diagnoses of MS is done with this and tests the optic nerves.

MS causes demyelination of nerves. Every nerve we have is covered by a myelin sheath. The sheath, for lack of a better way to describe its function is like insulation that protects a wire (the wire being your nerves.)MS attacks and breaks down that protective sheath. Hence, the very disturbing symptoms you’ve already noted.

Please stay optimistically hopeful and lead the most productive, positive life you can right now. Not every MS diagnosis progresses to immobility and becoming an invalid – on the contrary, you can live with no more than the symptoms you’ve experienced thus far.

Good thoughts go out to you.

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Posted By: metalgirl
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 12:48am

Thanks AMM

Both you and Jenny RR seem to know so much about a variety of topics, how do you guys do that?

I had an MRI which showed some areas (not sure how  many, but more than one area) of 'plaques'.  I'm sure more testing will be necessary, but the doctor reading the MRI said the plaques were most likely caused by MS.

I had symptoms of optic neuritis, but I didn't know what it was at the time.  That was just at the end of September, just one day before  I left to visit Seattle.  My left eye became extremely painful, with pain behind the eye and upon moving the eye.  It came and went within 4 days, so I thought it was just my weird eye allergies acting up.  It wasn't until almost two weeks later when I awoke with my right side from mid back to toes numb and tingly that I suspected that someone was really wrong with me.

Thanks so much for the words of kindness.  I'm just taking it day by day, but that's all any of us can do anyway, right?



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Posted By: aimee
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 1:39am

im so sorry to hear that a friend of me got MS too and she s living with this for a long time now and shes still fitter than me

oh and my girl had the problem with the numbness in her right arm she was on medication 5 years ago and since then the numbness didnt come back



Posted By: marie87
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 2:22am
My hart and prayers go out to you!! I agree with Ammm find a good chiropractor. I have seen and know frist hand( This job I throw my back out a lot!) the wonderfull things they can do. I have a client that due to stroke and brain damage was told he would never open his hand or move his head ( had many surgeries for toung cancer thats when stroke ocoured) He started opening his hand after a few visits and can move his head too!! His wife cryed when telling me this, his hand at frist just wigled a coulpe fingers but that was more than the docs ever gave him hope for! I'm not saying this will fix all but I would try.


Posted By: sherrie215
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 2:37am

Lisa, Im so sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I was diagnosed with Lupus several years ago...and have been pretty healthy, despite the initial health problems that prompted medical treatment and diagnosis. Hang in there girl.....my heart goes out to you



Posted By: Amanda8Beechwoo
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 3:30am
Oh chick I'm so sorry to hear this I've got all my fingers and toes crossed for you x

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Posted By: MmeduKrue
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 3:37am
I am also very sorry to read about this diagnosis.  I know how you feel, years ago my father was diagnosed with a brain tumour. My best wishes for you. Please don`t give up...


Posted By: Aeone
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 4:30am

I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, metalgirl <3

I completely agree with the ladies about finding a good chiropractor - my aunt has been living with MS for many years, and seeing a chiropractor regularly is a integral part of her therapy.

 



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Posted By: leelou
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 4:40am
oh dear chick thats awful for you, im so sorry. stay strong and positive and keep smiling x x x

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Posted By: krs523
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 6:44am

metalgirl - my mother was diagnosed with MS 30 years ago - right after I was born.  She has the progressive type.  Growing up with it, I know what a struggle it can be, but I also know what huge strides they have made in medication.  When my mother was diagnosed in the 70's, doctors knew little to nothing about the disease.  She is now on a drug that has really slowed down the progression and there are encouraging studies being done with stem cell research.  Keep faith and always push your doctors to research the newest meds out there. 

K



Posted By: elvira
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 7:21am

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as well. Keeping it in the day is difficult to do with the devastating news you recieved.

I think that with your good attitude and outlook on life, you will still have a happy and successful life filled with family, friends and alot of support from all the lives that you have touched with your kind heart and soul. Just from reading your posts it is evident that you are a warm and giving person. I have always enjoyed reading whatever you post with your nonjudgemental and carefree attitude.

There are many good suggestions already posted. Remember that God doesn't close one door without opening another.



Posted By: Kalika
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 8:59am

*hugs* Im so sorry.  I know how your feeling though, when I was 19 I was diagnosed with kidney disease.  The first few weeks after you've been told is the worst, but you are strong and you'll make it through. 

I wish the best for you and I know you'll do well in life



Posted By: ccross6032
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 9:24am

hi metal -

i'm so sorry. here is the website for the national MS society - it looks like they have some support groups, etc set up in your area:

http://www.nmss.org - http://www.nmss.org  - enter your zip and the chapters will pop up.

i totally agree with amm here - so often i've heard of this diagnosis being sort of a "well it isn't this or that so it must be MS". i am not really experienced at all with chiropractic, but as a vet i can say that so often there is a cluster of neurologic diseases - all slightly different in their origin and what they affect - that are difficult to discriminate from one another. get a 2nd AND 3rd opinion, see a specialist, go talk to the people at the local MS chapter and see who they recommend and hear their experiences.

best of luck to you and my prayers are with you! i applaud you for wanting to get all the info you can now.

cheryl

 



Posted By: gsmilie
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 12:41pm
I am so sorry to hear your bad news.  Stay strong, and stay possitive.  My prayers go out to you.


Posted By: metalgirl
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 12:51pm

Thank all  you guys, your awesome!

I have to wait to see the neurologist until Dec.1st.

I am going to start eating only organic foods, resume accupuncture, meditation, Qidong (it's like Tai Chi) , get a personal trainer, etc.  I'm not giving up so easily!

By the way, I would caution anyone to consume the artificial sweeterner 'aspartame'.  Some dr.s believe it can cause MS type symptoms.  Do a google search on 'aspartame and MS' and you will get info about the horrible effects the sweetener can have on the body.

 



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Posted By: ccross6032
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 1:10pm

hi metalgirl - those all sound like great options.

my own personal philosophy now is sort of moving towards staying away from all the processed foods/ artificial additives, and sweeteners. The other thing i'm really beginning to believe helps to quiet inflammation and curb/slow many degenerative processes are antioxidants like vitamin E/selenium, alpha lipoic acid, etc. there is some evidence also that many chronic debilitating illnesses (mainly like lou gehrig's disease, a different progressive neuro disease, which i have some clinical experience with) especially in domestic animals isn't due to one thing but rather the result of oxidative damage/oxidants accumulating from all kinds of issues- antioxidants help slow/reverse the process in experimental and some natural cases too. a good natural antioxidant supplement (for vitamin E look for natural form: d-alpha tocopherol, the dL form is man made and crap).

i know some people megadose themselves with vit C and E; for water soluble vitamins like C you pretty much eliminate excess when you urinate, but for vit E i think you have to be super careful with higher than recommended doses because it's fat soluble and will get stored and that alone can cause problems. 

good luck!

 



Posted By: Angelfruit
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 1:12pm
I'm so sad to hear this. My thought are with you.
x


Posted By: Bridget
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 1:14pm

Lisa, you're such a strong woman, and such a fighter...  keep your head up thru this tuff time... my thoughts and prayers go out to you. (I totally agree w/Amm about the second and third even, opinion) 



Posted By: kirstyx1888xmac
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 2:10pm
metal girl i am so sorry that must be very upsetting for you. my thoughts and prayers are with u at this difficult time hopefully you will be gettin loads of help and support from family and friends. stay strong and postive.


Posted By: TanglesRC
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 5:40pm

oh honie- i am crying reading this, i will be praying for you daily and know if there is anything i can do, please just ask.... OKAY???

i love you

S



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Posted By: sansconformist
Date Posted: October 25 2005 at 9:47pm

Shoot  That's some crappy thing to deal with, metalgirl. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I don't know how much confidence you have in your diagnosis, but if there is any hope that more tests may change your outlook, I wish it to you.

Several years ago, I was having issues where I was having anaphylactic reactions almost every time I left the house, I seriously thought I was dying. Turns out I'm allergic to gluten and it's triggered by exercise. Just one of those bizarre new things that seems to be popping up to f*ck with people, but easily enough controlled, once you identify it. I don't know. I just hope something works out for you. You give so much to the board and it's members. We really appreciate you here.



Posted By: Scotchyroo
Date Posted: October 26 2005 at 8:17am

Hey Metalgirl,  you are in my prayers every day.  I think you are making wise choices.

   Don't let fear bring you down.   Love and Kisses ,  christina



Posted By: pinkpanther
Date Posted: October 26 2005 at 11:43am

Oh no metalgirl, how can such thing happen to such a nice person.  I am very upset by the news and I wish you luck and anything you will need to defeat this disease.  Please stay strong and be positive, with these days technology, you never know one day there may be a cure. 

My prayers will be with you, best of luck!!!!



Posted By: zapevaj
Date Posted: October 26 2005 at 3:35pm
Oh, Lisa, this must be so hard for you. But please, don't think that your diagnosis is your fate. My sister has Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, a degenerative joint condition, and it's very easy to think of that in terms of "an endless spiral downwards". But it's not. She has lots of problems to deal with that make life harder, sure, but she does lots of things to counteract the effect of her condition- physical therapy, wears joint braces, exercises, etc (which don't necessarily apply to MS, I know)- and by doing so, she has a manner in which she has some control over her health. And she has bad days, but she's also got very good days; it's not a straight path downwards, but lots of ups and downs, like everything else in life. If you do have MS, it's not the end-all and be-all of everything in your life (though I bet it feels like it right now); it's just one more thing to deal with. Keep your head up, girl; you're so talented and determined that nothing can stop you. :)

-Rae


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Posted By: leia1979
Date Posted: October 26 2005 at 9:11pm
Lisa, you know you have the love and support of all of us here.  You are a strong and wonderful person, and I hope for good things to come to you. 

Maybe you might consider travelling down this way to UCSF or Stanford med center.  They're both on the leading edge of medicine (my brother's been to both).


Posted By: Syren123
Date Posted: October 26 2005 at 9:38pm
Oh Lisa...bless your heart! I hope that today is a better day for you and that the initial shock is wearing off.

I think what Rae said is absolutely right on - this is NOT the beginning of the end by any means! Her sister's condition just added some stumbling blocks to her life, but they are do-able and not unlike any roadblocks and setbacks we all face. These just happen to be tangible. But in no way are they the end of your world.

All the plans you told us you've made - chiropractic care, organic food, meditation, and just being kind to yourself - are fantastic! Not only for your condition, but for your whole being. Dr. Cheryl's post has lots of stuff to start researching also, and thanks for the heads up on the aspartame thing.

Remember I had a brain tumor removed last April which took the sight in my right eye. I was 44 yrs old with no and I mean NO previous health problems of any kind, just like you. But it appeared nonetheless. I have a few residual complications (impared pituitary which affects my thyroid as a result of the radiotherapy I had this year)... plus I have to watch the tumor via MRI every year forever so as not to lose my other eye. And yup, many new obstacles as a result but - definitely cope-able.

I have 2 dear friends with MS and BOTH are nowhere NEAR degenerated. They have 'bouts' periodically but are otherwise in great shape. Severe cases like poor Annette Funicello are RARE.

The folks I know who have MS do what you're going to do: they work with their doctors and treat themselves gently with diet and lifestyle and herbs and stuff. Only one friend - an older lady - has to take drugs periodically, but not constantly. She is fully functional and doing very well. She was diagnosed 35 yrs ago and she's 55.

I do the same with my issues: the doctors tell me what's wrong with me and I treat myself first - detox, yoga, no bad food whatsoever, supplements for my thyroid and I'm taking Cantron to get rid of the tumor (also works on MS). None of this is doctor prescribed. I am on no drugs. I make sure I have hair I love so I don't stress. I don't wig out about not being able to see as well; I just don't drive at night or read in dim light. And my DIY hair days are over - no way I can see well enough to put it in myself. But whatever.

Honey, you can do this. You will be okay. If you want ANYTHING, any info or anything at all, please ask. You're going to be a-ok and live to be a beautiful old rocker chick.

Many hugs to you -


Posted By: lucky chick
Date Posted: October 27 2005 at 2:45am

Dear Metalgirl,

I just wanted to tell you that I am sending you warm, positive, healing thoughts. 

In fact, right now I am bombarding you w/ them...

 



Posted By: metalgirl
Date Posted: October 27 2005 at 11:35am
Thanks guys!

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Posted By: LauraR
Date Posted: October 27 2005 at 1:31pm

I think Rae and Syren covered it! How can I follow that...

My prayers are with you




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