You could try a sock bun for curls.Most people have good results with that.

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And as far as hairstyles go I myself think a high messy bun always looks good.Good luck.

 

 

 

As to the sock rollers/bun for rollers it doesn't work. I haven't tried them specifially but I have tried hot rollers, curl spray, Rolling my hair up and bobby pinning it so it will dry in curls, a round brushs, everything.   

 

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And here it is straightened:

 

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I'm with specialkitty.That flatiron is only going to make your hair look worse overtime.And if it gets too damaged not even the flatiron will make it look good.

 

 

Is it attainable for me? How does she do it (or how do he stylists do it?)

 

 

 

There are many things you can do to get the "straight" look without using heat - I've found aloe gel to really help tame frizzies and make my hair look straighter. You can use scrunchies down the length when it's damp to straighten it as it dries.

 

Oh, you might send a pm to http://talk.hairboutique.com/member_profile.asp?PF=22651&FID=39 - letmecount123 , she has similar hair to yours, and I know she straightens every now and then for special occasions.

 

Any other tips for styleing without heat? I would like to have big loose waves but the sock thing won't work. I have really thick hair and none of my socks are big enough to do it. Besides wouldn't it be uncomfotable to sleep on.

 

Silk pillow cases. How do they protect your hair and can you buy them at any store? I cannot buy things online (we don't have credit cards)

 

I have to agree with the other gals. Any time you put any heat on your hair, you are damaging it. Your hair is very pretty natural. And it looks like it is still in pretty good condition.But, If you keep on using the flat iron, when your hair is long, what will the ends look like?

 

I also have really thick hair, that is really wavy, almost curly. I have problems with frizz, so I use jojba oil as a mild styling aid, and an over-night leave in. Also, doing co only washes will help with the damage control.Mayonaise is a really good treatment for damage, also

 

 While your hair is damp try taking a big, really big, flat brush and brush through your hair with the brush on the underside. It won't take all the wave out, but it might help. I know that the more I brush my hair, the straighter it gets.

 

But, I really, honestly think you have very pretty hair, just the way it is. I hope I could help.

 

The first thing you must understand is that the look of your curls will improve as the health of your hair improves.  You say that you don't like the kind of curl/wave that your hair has.  That's possibly because you're not styling it properly to get "maximum performance".  Curly hair is so different than straight hair and must be treated very differently!  Most people don't realize that, even stylists.  It took me several years of gathering info and experimenting to figure out how to really treat my hair to make it look its best.

 

Here is what I advise you to do:

 

1. Stop thinking you have to have straight hair or big loose curls to look hot.  Curly/wavy hair can be very sexy-looking.  And the longer your hair gets, the hotter you'll look. 

2. Stop thinking you have to look like a celebrity.  Life is so much less stressful when you accept yourself the way you are!  Accept your hair the same way you must accept your body, your talents (or lack thereof), etc.  A woman looks most beautiful when she is comfortable with who she is.

3. Stop using Head & Shoulders every time you wash your hair, it's a very harsh shampoo.  Since you said you use a flat iron every day, I assume you wash your hair every day.  Try using a regular shampoo for normal hair most of the time, and use the dandruff shampoo once a week or once every 2 weeks.  When you use the dandruff shampoo, only use it on your scalp. (never pile all your hair up on your head when washing) 

4. Stop washing your hair every day.  I know it's very hard for some people to get used to this, but it does make a big difference because you're not daily stripping the natural oils from your hair.  Go ahead and take your shower every day, and rinse your hair in the shower, just don't add shampoo.  Curly hair needs that moisture, so you don't have to skip getting it wet, just skip the shampoo.  (I wash my hair only twice a week.)

5. Stop using a brush.  A brush will cause more fluff and frizz than any person should ever have to deal with.  Try using a wide tooth comb instead.  Better yet, try combing your hair thoroughly before washing it, then don't touch it aftwards.  Scrunch it with a towel to get out excess water, then let it air dry.  No combing, brushing, or running your fingers through it.

 

I know this was really long.  I hope it helps!  You can check out my hair space to see my hair, exactly how I do it, the products I use, and more.  If you have any questions, do ask! 

 

p.s. i found satin pillowcases at wal-mart, though i'm not sure if they still carry them.  if you can't find one, buy a piece of soft satin at a fabric store and make one.  it doesn't take much time or skill to make a pillowcase.

 

PS: Keep the tips coming! LOL.

 

 

 

Alisa06

 

It's great that you found a way to straighten without much heat.  That will help alot on reducing the amount of damage to your hair.

 

I was having to get it trimen al least ever couple of monthes to help with the damage. Now, I get it trimed mabye 2-3 times a year.

 

I also try to stay away from cone products, and pretty much anything that had alot of chemicals in it. I use a line caled Jason Naturals. You can get them at health food stores. Fred Meyer also carries it in the natural section. I like the sea kelp and the biotin.I only shampoo 2 times a week. I do co only washes the rest of the time. Jojoba oil could also help prevent breakage. I use it as a leave-in a couple of times a week, overnight. I also use it like a frizz ease serum. But a little goes a long way. 

As for he big spongey rollers, a drug store sholud have them

 

Sorry for the long post, I hope I helped you some.

 

 

Alisa06 

 

 

Alisa06

Yes, the silicone builds up on the hair and eventually seals out the moisture.  I do know some long haired women who like cones.  My sister has been using the biotin shampoo for a couple months and loves it.  When I use a shampoo with even one cone I notice a difference in the way my hair behaves after only 2 or 3 washes.  It's whatever your hair responds to the best that you should use. 

 

Precious Girl -

If you find a shampoo or conditioner you think you might like, give it a try.  I know that can get expensive, but I try to use the whole bottle unless it's something I just can't stand.  If after several washes you decide you really don't like it, stop using it (give it to a friend or something) and try something else.  Don't be afraid to experiment with different products!  Remember which one gave the best results, take notes if you have to, and go with it.  You will eventually find the one that works best for your specific hair.  Good luck!

 I guess you just have to find what works for you. I have gotten shampoos and conditioners in the past, only to use it a couple of times, and either through it out or give it to someone. If you find something you like, and it works for you, stick with it. At the moment, I really like the GROW line from Hair Formula 37. The only problem I am having is that I have alot of hair, and the bottles are kind of on the smaller end. I think I am going to just use them as like a treatment, a couple times aweek or so.

 

 

Alisa06

 

 

NO YUOU CANNOT HAVE HAIR LIKE THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE EXTENSIONS!

Her hair is FAKE, same with every other celeb.