I had this hair style I really liked, with the layers and it was shorter in the back instead of the front. It was about a half-inch above my shoulders. It's a nice natural dark brown, and I have never dyed it once. It's naturally really curly, and I hate it, so I usually straighten it.
I really enjoyed it but I wanted to get it trimmed up, and my mom showed the hair stylist a picture of this girl in a hairstyling magazine, and the stylist made my hair hideous and short. This was a new stylist I went to, and she didn't ask me much, judt went with what my mom said.
I really wished i had gone to my original stylist, she would of talked me out of it. My mom feels really bad and I feel miserable, and my Dad is annoyed. My house is a wreck because of one hairstyle. The hairstyle is so hideous I can't even look into the mirror. It looks fine with a hat on, but I can't wear hats to school. *stabs self* I am so depressed because if this!
Recently on my old, better hairstyle, I had less bangs because it was my first time with them. I had gone years without bangs. Well, the stylist gave me more bangs, and it was alot! There's too much of them and they look really bad. It doesn't match my look at all.
I'm very ashamed of it and i'm afraid to go anywhere with it. It's too short to put in a ponytail and it is too long to spike in the back. It's above my shoulders, big time. It isn't even to my chin, it's just below my ears (Thank god for it not being above them!) and its so different and ugly.
It frames my face to much and it looks dorky. It's the shortest I've had my hair in my lifetime and it's making me miserable and I can't keep my composure. I cried a lot last night, I couldn't stop, then this morning, I started crying again.
I'm embarrassed to go to school and I didn't today because I'm afraid people are going to ask me about it, and I know when i'm gonna reply, I'm going to start crying again. I need some help and ideas of what to do about it..
I'm 13 years old and bawling about my hair - wow who saw that coming? Seriously I never thought I'd start doing stuff with my hair and actually caring! I usually just put my curly hair in a ponytail and got my bangs straightened every day before school, I didn't care what my hair looked like, until now.
Oh my god, I really wonder what i can do... I hope someone has some good advice for me!! I seriously feel like a wreck.. I want to knock myself out and go back to last night before I got my hair cut.. I think about my hair, or see it, and I bawl, feel miserable, or think of what other people are gonna think..
I mean what possessed my hair stylist to chop all my hair off!!! I WANTED IT TRIMMED. I liked my old hairstyle (the longer one but the not ponytail one), my mom did, and everyone else did too! whywhywhywhywhywhywhywhywhywhywhywhywhywhy!?!
Please someone help me!
P.S. Sorry this post was so long.. but I had to get that off my chest.
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